Good Morning Everyone,
Our theme for this month: “Sexual Ethics”
Our Bible verse for today: “Why, my son, would you be infatuated with a forbidden woman or embrace the breast of a stranger?” Proverbs 5:20 (HCSB)
Our thought for today: “Sex outside of marriage is sin.”
As a teenager I grew-up during the height of the hippie movement. That was the “free love” generation. The idea was that love was the answer to the world’s problems and if we would all just be more intentional and less inhibited about expressing love, the problems of the world would magically melt away.
Although lip service was paid to the value of kindness and compassion, the primary expression of “free love” was “free sex”. There was a popular Rock and Roll group by the name of “Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young” who had a hit song with the chorus, “If you can’t be with the one you love then love the one you’re with.” And so we did.
Eventually the hippies grew-up, got jobs and had kids, and the hippie movement faded away. But the free love movement did not. Instead it morphed into a culture of casual sex which is still very much alive and well in our society today. Among young people it’s known as “hooking up”. This is the notion that guys and girls who have an attraction to each other can “hook up” for a sexual encounter without being encumbered by any commitments which extend beyond the moment.
There is another mindset which exists among adults across age groups which is known as “friends with benefits”. These are men and women who are close friends and who have no romantic feelings for each other, but who come together from time to time to meet each other’s sexual needs. Once the encounter is over their friendship continues as before, but still with no romantic feelings and certainly no commitments.
All of the sexual relationships just described are clearly outside the Biblical sexual ethic established by God of one man and one woman in a committed lifelong marriage. They are unbiblical and therefore sinful. Beyond that, casual sex is destructive. The sex act was intended by God to be a holy moment of intimacy shared by a husband and wife. Casual sex cheapens the sex act and undermines the sanctity of traditional marriage. Additionally, casual sex transmits disease. Sexually transmitted disease (STD) is a major health issue today. But it’s easy to avoid contracting a STD – simply marry a person who doesn’t have one and then never have sex with anyone else.
As the Church we must boldly and confidently preach, teach, and promote the Biblical model. Then we must practice it ourselves. We must be the champions of traditional Biblical marriage. The culture should be able to look to the church to see examples of healthy married couples and celibate singles who honor God in their sexual lives.
Tomorrow we will consider the issue of cohabitation. Is living together without being married ok?
God Bless,
Pastor Jim
Oak Hill Baptist Church 