Oak Hill Baptist Church

Consider carefully the advice of your elders

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “If today you will be a servant to these people and serve them and give them a favorable answer, they will always be your servants.” 1 Kings 12:7 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “Consider carefully the advice of your elders”

I once read a great statement that’s worth remembering: “Never despise the counsel of those who have lived longer than you.” That doesn’t mean you must accept the counsel whether you agree with it or not. But if you’re going to reject it, you should at least give it careful, thoughtful, and prayerful consideration first. Don’t despise it and reject it out of hand.

King Rehoboam of Judah was a foolish young man who did exactly that – he rejected the advice of his elders. Rehoboam was the son of Solomon. For much of Solomon’s long reign he had taxed the people heavily and worked them like dogs to further his massive building programs. After he died, the people were weary. They needed tax relief, and they needed a break from all the building projects.

So, a group representing the people approached Rehoboam, presented their case to him, and asked for some relief. The elder advisers counseled him to grant the request and thereby win the hearts of the people. We read their wise words of counsel in 1 Kings 12:7 (above).

Unfortunately, Rehoboam had also surrounded himself with another group of counselors – some brash young bucks whom he had grown up with. This group advised him to be tough with the people instead, thereby presumably demonstrating and firmly establishing his authority over them. They advised him that rather than decreasing the taxes and backing off on the projects, he should ramp it up and make them give more and do more. That would teach them a lesson about who’s in charge around here!

Rehoboam despised and rejected the counsel of the elders and instead went with the advice of his impetuous young friends, and the result was a disaster. The people rebelled, there was a civil war that split the nation, and Rehoboam’s entire seventeen-year reign as king was marked by trouble and failure. All because he despised the advice of his elders.

Older folks aren’t always right, but many times they are. Their advice is at least worth careful, thoughtful, prayerful consideration. We’ll think more about this tomorrow.

God Bless,
Pastor Jim

Choose your mentors well

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)

Our thoughts for today: “Choose your mentors well”

For many years, I have had a ministry working with young men who have serious problems with drug and alcohol abuse. Most often they’re in jail, prison, or a rehab center, and they’re desperately trying to break free from addiction and reestablish some sort of a normal life.

The good news for them is that there can be victory over substance abuse, and a person can go on to rebuild and live a great life. Two of the Bible verses I often share with them are from Old Testament prophets. One is from Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you – this is the Lord’s declaration – plans for your well-being, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” The second is from the prophet Joel in Joel 2:25, “I will restore to you the years the swarming locust has eaten.” And then one from Jesus in the New Testament in John 10:10, “I have come so they may have life, and have it to the full.”

There is hope for the recovering addict, but there are two essential steps they must take. The first is to give their life over fully to Jesus, and the second is to choose good friends and mentors. It’s a well-proven fact of human nature that over time we become like those we associate with. If you hang around with bank robbers, you too will probably end up robbing banks. If your surround yourself with those who use profanity, soon you too will be cursing. If you associate with drug users, it’s just a matter of time before you will be using too. We become like those we associate with.

But those are negative examples. The opposite is true too. If you spend a lot of time with people who love to fish – who talk about fishing, who go fishing, and who encourage you to fish with them, before long you will be out there fishing too. If you hang around with people who are active in church, soon you probably will be too.

One of the strategies I encourage those young men in jail, prison, and rehab to employ as they work to stay clean and to rebuild their lives, is to find people who already have the kind of life they would like to have, and then spend lots of time with those people. Because, over time we become like those we associate with.

This is why it’s so important to choose good friends and mentors. Tomorrow we will look at a Biblical example of a young man who chose his friends and mentors poorly, and who paid a terrible price for it.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

A “thin place” moment

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “And let us watch out for one another to provoke love and good works, not neglecting to gather together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging each other, and all the more as you see the day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “A “thin place” moment”

By the time I became a pastor I was already a retired naval officer with multiple college degrees, including a seminary education. But I was new to the field of being a pastor and lacked experience leading a church. Fortunately, at my first church, the Lord had a very wise mentor waiting for me. His name was Dick DeGrow and he was himself a retired pastor. Dick was also a soft-spoken, mild-mannered, humble man who was very wise in the ways of the Lord.

There was also another man waiting for me when I got there who was not humble, wise, or spiritually mature. And unfortunately, long before I arrived at that church, this man had been placed in an important and influential ministry position. He was relatively young for the position, and his nature was such that he was head-strong, outspoken, aggressive and assertive, and something of a bull in a China shop – he tended to thrash around making lots of noise and breaking things. He was a problem for me from the start.

Dick quickly became my “go-to” guy for counsel and advice regarding all sorts of issues, including dealing with my bull in the China shop. We would often sit in my office discussing issues and praying together.

Finally, the situation with the bull became intolerable and was going to have to be dealt with, but it was clearly going to be messy and had the potential to damage the church. It was the first major conflict I was going to have to deal with as a pastor and I was a little uncertain of how to go about it. My natural inclination was to let my inner military officer come out and just go to battle stations all over this guy. But then we would have had two bulls butting heads. What I really needed was a good dose of Dick’s calm, patient, and steady demeanor.

As we sat in my office and talked about it, Dick got quiet and thoughtful for a moment and then he said, “Pastor, not only do we need to pray about this, but we need to get on our knees and pray about it” (usually we prayed sitting in our chairs).”

As we knelt together fervently praying for wisdom and guidance, I sensed the presence of the Lord in that room in a more powerful way than I ever had before. I actually had goose bumps on my skin. From that time of prayer, I went to meet with the bull. The situation did end up being a bit dramatic and it did cause some ripples in the church, but nothing like it could have. The bull ended up leaving the church, but his wife and children stayed, and everyone else quickly shrugged it off and just got on with church life.

Yesterday I told you about the Celtic concept of “thin place moments” when for just an instant, the veil separating the physical realm from the spiritual world is parted and you get a glimpse or a sense of interaction with the other world. That’s what happened to me during that prayer session with my friend and mentor Dick DeGrow in my office that day – and I still vividly remember it more than twenty-five years later.

A good spiritual mentor can be helpful like that, and we usually find them in church. That’s another great reason to obey Hebrews 10:24-25 and not neglect the gathering together of your church family.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

Have you had a “thin place” moment?

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “Elisha said, ‘Don’t be afraid, for those who are with us outnumber those who are with them.’ Then Elisha prayed, ‘Lord, please open his eyes and let him see.’ So the Lord opened the servant’s eyes, and he saw that the mountain was covered with horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha.” 2 Kings 6:16-17 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “Have you had a “thin place” moment?”

In 2 Kings chapter six the prophet Elisha was in a bit of a tough spot. The king of Aram had sent an entire army to track him down and either capture or kill him. When Elisha’s servant got up in the morning and stepped outside, he discovered that they were surrounded by this large army that was ready to move in on them. In despair he rushed to Elisha and said, “Oh, my master, what are we to do?”

To that Elisha replied that there was no need to despair because there was actually a great spiritual army of angels surrounding the physical army that was surrounding them, and therefore they were going to be just fine. Elisha prayed and asked God to open the servant’s eyes to the spiritual reality around them, and when He did, the servant had a glimpse of the spiritual reality that existed just on the other side of the thin veil which separates the physical world from the spiritual world.

In Celtic culture they teach of “thin places” where, perhaps only for a moment, the veil between this world and the other is parted and a glimpse can be caught into the spiritual realm. Such times are stunning and they help us to understand and appreciate the presence of the holy all around us. Those experiences can change a person and last a lifetime. The servant of Elisha had such an experience but for Elisha, it wasn’t new. Elisha knew of the existence of “thin places” and had apparently had such experiences before. The servant got to experience it because he was with Elisha at the right time.

One of the things I love about church life is that it puts me in the presence of mature Christians who are aware of and who have experienced “thin place” moments. They have had those times when the veil seems to have parted, they realized that they were in the presence of the holy, and it changed them. I love to be with people like that. They have sometimes helped to usher me into such experiences as well.

Tomorrow, I will tell you about one such moment when a mentor of mine helped me to have a “thin place” moment. For now, I want to encourage you to be preparing yourself for your group worship with your church family this Sunday. Perhaps the Lord will have a “thin place” moment for you.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

A little light chases away a lot of darkness

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “You are the light of the world” Matthew 5:14 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “A little light, chases away a lot of darkness”

Have you ever experienced darkness so deep that you literally cannot see your hand in front of your face? You can have that experience in Carlsbad Caverns, New Mexico. Once you are deep in the cavern the lights are extinguished and you will experience darkness so complete that you might become disoriented, perhaps feel claustrophobic, and you may panic as you reach out trying to grab onto some solid object for reassurance.

But if at that time you were to strike a match, you would be amazed at the difference that little light would make. That’s because just a little light, chases away a whole lot of darkness. That’s true in the physical world but it’s even truer in the spiritual world. That’s the point Jesus was making in Matthew 5:14 in the Sermon on the Mount. As His followers we have the Holy Spirit in us and working through us shining spiritual light into a dark world. And just a little bit of spiritual light chases away a whole lot of spiritual darkness.

In recent days we’ve been considering the impact mentors make in the lives of at-risk children who live in dark, difficult, and sometimes even dangerous home environments. I’ve told you about the difference mentors make in the lives of those children through ministries like Kids on the Rise and the Lighthouse Christian Camp. But you might wonder how much of a difference can really be made in just one hour of mentoring a week (KOTR), or through an occasional camp experience (Lighthouse Camp), especially if those children are living the rest of their lives in darkness. The answer is found in the illustration above. Just a little light, chases away a whole lot of darkness.

That’s true for all mentoring relationships regardless of the ages of the persons involved. People thirst for positive, encouraging, and uplifting interactions. Love, encouragement, and positive reinforcement all make a big difference in the life of a struggling person. Those words and actions will be remembered for a long time, and will continue to have a positive impact in that person’s life long after the event itself has ended.

With just a little time and effort mentoring relationships can make a big difference in a life. It really is true that a little light, chases away a whole lot of darkness.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

We can reach at-risk children

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “But as for you, continue in what you have learned and firmly believed. You know those who taught you, and you know that from infancy you have known the sacred Scriptures, which are able to give you wisdom for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.” 2 Timothy 3:15-16 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “We can reach at-risk children”

Lighthouse Christian Camp is located in Smithville, TN. Like the Kids on The Rise Ministry which we considered in yesterday’s devotional, Lighthouse is also a ministry focused on reaching “at-risk” children who live in a world of poverty, drug abuse, and neglect. According to their website (www.lighthousechristiancamp.com) they are:

“…dedicated to helping needy, disadvantaged children suffering from sexual, physical, mental, emotional abuse and neglect. The purpose of the camp is to provide an enjoyable, exciting, enriching, quality outdoor experience, where they learn of God the Creator and are afforded an opportunity to come to a saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ. The staff and volunteer counselors provide love, encouragement, and counsel to needy children suffering from learning disabilities, emotional and behavioral problems, and low self-esteem and self-images, resulting from abuse, neglect, and rejection.”

Every year Lighthouse provides a free one-week summer camp experience to close to 1000 children and young teens from multiple counties in middle Tennessee. In addition to the summer camp experience, the camp provides weekend camp experiences throughout the year, as well as an afterschool program. Campers are also connected with a local partnering church in their community for follow-up and mentoring throughout the year. Additionally, each year at Christmastime, the camp offers a Christmas party for the boys, and another for the girls. The party includes food, games, and gifts, as well as a store where the children can go shopping (with play money) to purchase Christmas gifts for parents, grandparents, and siblings.

Lighthouse Christian Camp is a wonderful ministry that reaches deeply into the lives of troubled children, showing them the love of God and teaching them the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Hundreds of children and teens are led to faith in Christ and then discipled through the camp ministry and through the partnership of participating churches. The mentoring relationships developed often last for years and have an impact for a lifetime.

If you and your church are located in or near middle Tennessee, you will find many varied volunteer opportunities available to you through a partnership with the Lighthouse Christian Camp. You can also be a financial partner. I encourage you to visit their website. And if you’re not in this region of the country, chances are good that there’s a ministry like this in your area that you could partner with.

The greatest chance we will ever have to reach a person for Christ is when they are a child, and then as a teenager. The older a person gets, the harder it becomes to reach them. I encourage you to get involved in the lives of children and teens.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

Children are our future

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them.” Mark 10:16 (NIV)

Our thought for today: “Children are our future”

Children are our society’s most valuable resource because they represent the future. But children today are struggling like never before. Psychological problems among children are at an all-time high. Some studies show that as many as 1 in 5 below the age of 18 are being treated for some mental health issue. Likewise, slightly more than 20% of those under 20 years of age are classified as being obese, and many of those will develop type 2 diabetes. 16% of all children live in poverty, and approximately 25% live in single parent homes.

Those are just a few of the vital statistics pertaining to children. It says nothing of literacy rates, failing schools, gender confusion, social engineering, drugs, violent video games, and a host of other societal issues impacting our children today. So, even the average child faces a host of pressures and challenges on a daily basis. But then there’s a segment of the childhood population classified as “at-risk”. These children face special challenges beyond just the things already mentioned, and usually their situation includes the lack of positive adult interactions in their homelife. As has already been noted in this series, positive adult interactions are vital for the healthy mental, emotional, and spiritual development of a child.

Here in Cumberland County, Tennessee we’re blessed to have a wonderful organization that helps to address that problem. It’s known as “Kids on The Rise” (KOTR). In partnership with local schools, KOTR identifies at-risk children who would benefit from a having a mentoring relationship with an adult volunteer. Then, with the permission of the parent or guardian, the child meets with the mentor for one hour a week. Here’s how their website describes their mission:

“At Kids On The Rise, we believe that children are most likely to reach their full potential when surrounded and supported by positive, caring adults. A mentor listens, encourages, establishes positive boundaries and acts as a strong role model to help students develop a sense of hope and vision for their futures. (Our mission is) to provide experiences for youth that will enable them to further develop their intellectual, social, verbal, and creative capacities and to facilitate their entry into a responsible, productive adulthood.”

You can find out more about KOTR on their website at www.kidsontherise.org. Whether you are interested in potentially serving as a mentor for a child, or if you would simply like to make a donation, it’s a worthy cause that does great work on behalf of some of the most vulnerable children in our society.

Tomorrow, I will tell you about another organization which is also doing great work to help struggling children and which depends on the help of volunteer workers and mentors.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

Mentors help to shape lives

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “So Moses arose with his assistant Joshua and went up on the mountain of God.” Exodus 24:13 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “Mentors shape lives”

In recent years I’ve had a front-row seat to observe an unfolding story of how a mentor can help to shape a life over a long span of years. It involves as Sheriff’s deputy in our county who, about twenty years ago began going into the public schools to teach children about the dangers of drug abuse. He was using the old DARE program as his model.

In one of those sessions was a fifth-grade boy who not only identified with the lessons of the program, but more than that, he connected on a personal level with that deputy sheriff. That young boy decided that he wanted to one day be a law enforcement officer too, and he wanted to work with children just like this deputy was doing. That began a years-long friendship and mentoring relationship between that boy and that deputy that continues to this day.

Today that boy is an adult man, a husband and father. He too is a sheriff’s deputy and serves on the same force as his mentor. He actually works under the supervision of his mentor, serving as a School Resource Officer (SRO), and he is slowly assuming many of the duties his mentor has held for decades. He is essentially filling his mentor’s shoes. He has never lost sight of the vision he had that day in his fifth-grade elementary school classroom, and it is progressively becoming a reality in his life.

By the way, during all those years that older deputy also served as an associate pastor, and then as a pastor, in his off-duty hours. Today that young man, in addition to his work as an SRO, also serves as a youth pastor in his off-duty hours. It’s a great story of how a mentor can help to shape a life.

Joshua had a similar relationship with his mentor Moses. Joshua connected at a deep level and at a young age with Moses. He then came alongside and served as Moses’ assistant for many years, learning from him and growing into an effective servant in his own right. Eventually Joshua stepped in and assumed Moses’ role as the leader of Israel.

Mentors often help to shape the direction of a life. Tomorrow, I will tell you about an organization in our town that’s focused specifically on pairing older adults with at-risk children in mentoring relationships through the schools. In many ways and in many cases, mentors can help to shape lives. Perhaps God wants to use you to help shape a young life.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

The passing of Ken Daugherty

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “Paul wanted Timothy to go with him …” Acts 16:3 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “The passing of Ken Daugherty”

In 1990, when my family and I became members of Hilltop Baptist Church in Chula Vista, CA, I began hearing stories about a man who was a member of the church but whom I hadn’t met yet. The stories were about a guy who led mission teams to remote locations around the world, doing exciting things in exotic places. For instance, there were the three weeks he spent trekking through the mountains of Nepal to bring medical care and the gospel to remote villages; or the numerous trips to bring supplies to refugees hiding from the Sandinista government in the jungles of Nicaragua; or the time his team was captured by the communists in Malawi and held in prison, finally being freed by the direct intervention of the U.S. State Department.

Seriously, I was expecting to meet a swashbuckling Indiana Jones character. Instead, Ken Daugherty struck me more as a soft-spoken, mild-mannered accountant. He was not at all what I expected. But the stories were true, and a lot more as well. As I got to know Ken and I spent time with him in the CERT International (Christian Emergency Relief Teams) offices, the more fascinated I became with the world of international missions. I quickly became a volunteer in the office and warehouse, I helped to plan missions and prepare supplies, and I got to go on a mission or two as well.

Over the years (after I retired from the Navy, went to seminary, and became a Pastor), I continued my association with Ken and with CERT International, helping, supporting, and sometimes going. Ken and I would often speculate if perhaps someday I might be able to join him on the staff of CERT International.

Finally, in 2004, that did happen. By then the CERT International headquarters were located in Crossville, TN and God opened the door for me to join Ken as his full-time Vice-President of Operations. Over the next thirteen years (four as a full-time staff member and then, after I returned to church work and became the Pastor of Oak Hill Baptist, nine more years as a part-time mission planner and team leader), I planned and led close to thirty missions for CERT to places around the world. They were fascinating and rewarding years for me and I will be forever grateful for how God used Ken Daugherty to introduce me to the world of international missions.

Ken went home to heaven last week, on Wednesday March 9^th, after a long and fruitful life of 84 years. In addition to serving as the President of CERT International for over thirty years, he was a Pastor for more than twenty-five years before that, and he was at one time the Chairman of the Billy Graham Hawaii crusade.

There will be a memorial service for Ken on Friday March 18^th at 6:00 at Central Baptist Church in Crossville, TN. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations in his memory to CERT International. You can send them to:

CERT International
460 Old Jamestown HWY
Crossville, TN 38555
Or you can donate on the CERT International website at www.certinternational.org.

Ken Daugherty served the Lord faithfully and well in a variety of ministry roles for almost sixty years. He blessed many people and he will be missed by all.

God bless,
Pastor Jim

Mentors can take varied forms

Good morning everyone,

Our theme for this month: “The influence of a mentor”

Our Bible verse for today: “There was a prophetess, Anna, a daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was well along in years, having lived with her husband seven years after marriage, and was a widow for eight-four years. She did not leave the temple, serving God night and day with fasting and prayers.” Luke 2:36-38 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “Mentoring can take varied forms”

In an effort to illustrate different types of mentoring relationships, over the next few days I will tell some mentoring stories (some from my own experience and some that I’ve witnessed).

Mary E. Henry served as a mentor of mine for a very brief period of time, and for a very specific purpose. Mary was affectionally known as “Mary E”, to distinguish her from another Mary in the church who was known as “Mary Rose”. When I became the Pastor of Oak Hill Baptist Church in January of 2009 Mary E had already been a member for sixty-nine years. As a teenager she was one of the founding members of the church (in 1939), and she had been there ever since. She was the original pianist and was still playing the piano in our worship services almost seventy years later. Mary E was also the church historian, and she had a deep love for the church and for the Oak Hill community.

For a variety of reasons, Oak Hill Baptist had gone through many Pastors in their history and as a result, most of the tenures had been short. What the church really needed was stability in leadership and Mary E decided that I was going to be the guy who would settle in and stay. So, she made me her project. She set out to instill in me her own love for the church and for the community.

During my first year as the Pastor, Mary E invited me to visit in her home many times so she could tell me stories about the church, the families, and the community. As the church historian she had maintained extensive picture albums, clipped newspaper articles, and collected mementoes that she wanted to show me. I spent quite a few hours during my first year at Oak Hill Baptist sipping iced tea and eating sandwiches at Mary E’s dining room table, as I was tutored in the history and heritage of Oak Hill Baptist Church and the Oak Hill community.

And it worked. I quickly grew to share her love for the church and the community, and although Mary E has been in heaven for a long time now, I’m still here at Oak Hill Baptist more than thirteen years later – and I hope to be here for many more years to come. For some reason, Mary E decided early-on that I was a keeper (and I’m very glad that she did).

Mentors come in all shapes and sizes. They can serve many varied purposes, and sometimes just for a season. Perhaps God wants to use you in some special way in someone’s life at this time. I encourage you to spend some time in prayer this morning just being open before Him and giving Him the opportunity to speak to you about this if He wants to. Maybe God wants you to be someone’s Mary E. Henry – a mentor for a very specific reason and maybe just for a short time.

God bless,
Pastor Jim