Devotional for Thursday August 16th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “But the Lord replied to her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered and anxious about so many things …” Luke 10:41 (Amplified Bible)

 

Our thought for today: “Pay attention to the things that matter.”

 

The other day a friend and I were having a conversation about why people aren’t as responsive to important things as we think they should be. The actual topic we were discussing in this case was my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict”. The book was the product of a team effort. Although I wrote it, others helped with editing, cover design, publishing, and promotion. All of us involved in bringing the book to print believe strongly in the book. Sexual ethics present a difficult issue for Christians of our day and we believe the book conveys an important message in a helpful and easy-to-read format.

 

So we’ve all been a little surprised by the initial slow sales. It’s not that the book isn’t selling, it is, but we’re surprised by the large number of Christians who have seen the various promotions for it but who haven’t purchased a copy. Because sexual ethics is such an important cultural issue for Christians today, and since this book provides average Christians with accurate Biblical information on the issue, as well as good answers to difficult questions and a clear path forward for engaging the culture, you would think there would have been a better response.

 

However my friend made an important and helpful observation that I believe to be very accurate (and which Jesus addressed in Luke 10:41). She said, “Jim, people are just completely wrapped up in their own lives. Everyone is just so busy and so distracted that we miss a lot of things that ought to be important to us.”

 

I think she’s right. Because we’re so busy and so distracted we miss things we would otherwise pay attention to. That being the case, for those who are tasked by God to communicate Biblical truth on important issues, we have to keep at it and try extra hard. People can be reached but it takes extra effort to get their attention.

 

Yesterday I noted that in the Old Testament God continued to send prophets to speak messages the people of ancient Israel needed to hear. He kept communicating the message to them in hopes that they would hear it. While I don’t consider myself to be a prophet in that sense, I do have a message that is important and which I’m convinced the people of our day need to hear as well. And I am trying to communicate that message to people who are very busy and often distracted with the cares of life. So I continue to promote the book in every way I can.

 

If you don’t have your copy yet I encourage you to get yours today. You can order one online at www.JimMersereauBooks.com. Remember, all profits from the sales of the book are being donated to the Oak Hill Baptist Church missions and humanitarian relief projects. You can also help to promote it by sharing this message with those in your email address book or by reposting it on your Facebook page.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Wednesday August 15th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Still, the Lord warned Israel and Judah through every prophet and every seer, saying, ‘Turn from your evil ways and keep my commands and statutes according to the whole law I commanded your ancestors and sent to you through my servants the prophets.’ But they would not listen.” 2 Kings 17:13-14 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “It is our job to speak the truth.”

 

2 kings 17:13-14 is part of a longer passage which is sub-titled by the Bible translators “Why Israel Fell”. In that passage we read that the nation sinned; God sent them prophets to speak words of warning; but the people would not listen. So God punished them and the nation fell.

 

The other night my youngest son and I were discussing my new book, “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict” (available at www.JimMersereauBooks.com). He pointed out that in all of history no great nation has ever remained great. At some point every great nation has fallen. Most of them ceased to exist altogether, like Babylonia and Rome. But even those that have continued to exist, like Egypt and England, they’re just a shadow of their former great selves. In virtually every case those great nations fell because they decayed from within. They abandoned the principles and moral standards that made them great to begin with, and then their moral decadence became like a cancer which ate away at the foundations of their society. After that it was an easy thing for other nations to conquer them.

 

My son observed that that’s what’s happening in the USA. We’re progressively abandoning our foundational principles of morality and decency. It’s getting so bad that it’s become fashionable to even disrespect our national symbols like the flag and the national anthem, and to scorn our foundational Biblical principles. Unless this trend is reversed it will be the beginning of the end of America’s greatness. Sexual immorality is one of the issues destroying us as a nation and it’s exactly why I wrote my book – to help Christians to have clear, concise, well-reasoned words to speak on the subject of sexual ethics in our day.

 

In the case of ancient Israel, the Lord repeatedly sent prophets with words of caution and warning, but the people refused to listen. That might be the case in the USA as well. But just as in ancient Israel, the words of caution and warning must be spoken. As was noted in yesterday’s devotional, if we don’t say it, they won’t hear it. But if the truth is spoken, people will at least hear it, and some will respond.

 

As the people of God it’s our job to speak the truth, whether the nation wants to hear it or not, and whether they respond to it or not.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Tuesday August 14th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “How, then, can they call on him they have not believed in? And how can they believe without hearing about him? And how can they hear without a preacher? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written: How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news.” Romans 10:14-15 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it.”

 

Yesterday we thought about the fact that our society is putting increasing pressure on Christians to remain silent in the public arena. In television shows and movies Biblical beliefs are scorned and Christians are portrayed as cartoonish buffoons, or worse. The liberal news media focuses on stories about disturbed extremists who profess to be Christians but who behave very badly, and then those news reports are offered in such a way as to suggest those extremists are actually typical Christians. Atheistic college professors bully and ridicule Christian students in the classroom. All of that and more contributes to the pressure Christians feel to remain silent about Biblical issues.

 

In Romans 10:14-15 Paul instructed us to go into the world, speaking words of truth and Good News. The primary message to be spoken is the Good News that through faith in Christ our sins can be forgiven by God. But along with that primary message, the followers of Christ must also speak-up for Biblical principles as they pertain to the situations we encounter.

 

In our society today the general population is increasingly Biblically illiterate. People simply do not know what the Bible says about the life situations they’re facing, and they will not know, unless some Biblically informed Christian tells them. How can they know if nobody tells them? If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it.

 

As was discussed yesterday, the Holy Spirit will give us words and courage. But the words the Holy Spirit gives us are the words we have taken the time to read, study, and memorize. He then brings those truths to our minds at the time we need them. It’s a difficult thing for the Spirit to bring to our mind things we never bothered to put into our mind to begin with. This is why Bible study is so important.

 

This is also why it’s important to read good books that explain Biblical principles as they pertain to current social issues. That’s the reason I wrote my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict”. The book consists of thirty-four short and easy-to-read essays designed to give Christians the basic information we need in order to speak intelligently and confidently about the subject of sexual ethics. If you don’t have your copy of it yet you can get one at www.JimMersereauBooks.com.

 

If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it. We must be prepared to speak Biblical truth.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:
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Devotional for Monday August 13th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation:

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Whenever they bring you before synagogues and rulers and authorities, don’t worry about how you should defend yourselves or what you should say. For the Holy Spirit will teach you at that very hour what must be said.” Luke 12:11-12 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Sometimes the tone that needs to be changed is the silence.”

 

Increasingly today Christians are being silenced in the public arena. We’re being told to keep our beliefs to ourselves, or there are attempts to shame us into silence by portraying Biblical beliefs as archaic and silly. As a result, many Christians choose to be silent rather than face potential opposition or scorn.

 

This is not okay. We are commanded by Jesus to be His witnesses in the world. We are instructed to promote and contend for Biblical principles in an ungodly society. Granted, doing so can be risky, and it can cost us, therefore we need courage in order to speak up.

 

Sometimes we mistakenly believe that courage is the absence of fear. It is not. Courage is overcoming your fear and acting anyway. Courage is not letting the fear defeat you and hold you back from doing and saying the things that need to be done and said. Fear is a natural emotion experienced by everyone and it is actually a good thing. Fear alerts us to danger and causes us to be cautious. Courage is a choice to push past the fear and do what needs to be done – albeit cautiously, but taking action nonetheless.

 

In Luke 12:11-12 Jesus gave His disciples some instructions about what to do when they needed to have the courage to speak-up in situations where speaking-up would not be easy. He told them to rely on the Holy Spirit. He did not tell them to avoid such situations, or to remain silent in them in order to avoid the wrath of the listeners. He told them to look to the Spirit for courage and guidance and then to speak on His behalf. That’s the answer for us too.

 

Today we live in a society that is increasingly anti-Christian. In a land that celebrates “freedom of speech” Biblical speech is becoming increasingly unacceptable. Our response should not be to remain silent. We must speak-up with confidence and courage, but also with kindness and respect.

 

If you haven’t already done so, I encourage you to get a copy of my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict.” The main theme of the book is sexual ethics, but the lessons and strategies for how to speak-out in difficult situations apply to all subjects. You can get your copy at www.JimMersereauBooks.com.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:
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Crossville, Tn 38571

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Stay calm and pray about it.”

 

It’s often difficult to remain calm in tense situations, especially if that tense situation is a heated conversation about an issue you care deeply about. In such cases it’s not uncommon for tempers to rise, emotions begin to boil, and the situation begins to spiral out of control. The key is to pray about it and to stay calm.

 

Yesterday I told you the story about Nelson Mandela and how it was that one of his outstanding character traits was his ability to remain balanced, measured, and controlled in his thinking, decision-making, speaking, and actions. I want to continue that discussion today.

 

In tense or turbulent situations it’s imperative for us to stay calm and in control. Lose control and you lose the situation. Your ability to control yourself and to stay calm helps to keep everyone else calm as well. Fear and anxiety are contagious, but so is a confident sense of calm and control. This is one of the most important traits of a leader. Army General and former Secretary of State in the George W. Bush administration, Colin Powell, is another one of the leaders I admire. He had a long list of what he called “Powell’s Principles”. It was a list of the leadership principles he considered to be most important for any successful leader. One of them was, “Never let them see you sweat.”

 

When I was a young naval officer I was trained to be the Officer of the Deck on an aircraft carrier. I was the guy who stood on the bridge, binoculars poised, looking like Admiral Halsey, saying, “Helmsman, right full rudder. Steady on course 180”, and cool stuff like that. A principle that was drilled into those of us trained for that position was what was called “Command Presence”. “Command Presence” was an image you needed to project that you were calm and in control at all times. Internally your mind might be racing and your heart might be pounding, but outwardly, as far as anyone else could see, you were a rock.

 

All of us need to learn how to be calm and in control. Paul teaches in Philippians 4:6-7 that we are to pray about all things. So bring those tense situations to the Lord and ask Him to give you a sense of calmness, control, and peace. Ask Him to help you be the one who calms things down and who has a positive influence on everyone else. Just stay calm and pray about it.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Oak Hill Baptist Church · 3036 Genesis Road · Crossville, Tn 38571 · USA

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Devotional for Friday August 10th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “But he must ask (for wisdom) in faith, without doubting (God’s willingness to help), for the one who doubts is like a billowing surge of the sea that is blown about and tossed by the wind. For such a person ought not to think or expect that he will receive anything (at all) from the Lord, being a double-minded man, unstable and restless in all his ways (in everything he thinks, feels, or decides). James 1:6-8 (Amplified Bible)

 

Our thought for today: “Be balanced, measured, and controlled.”

 

One of the books I’m currently reading is “Mandela’s Way: Lessons for an Uncertain Age”. It’s essentially a summary of Nelson Mandela’s leadership principles. Nelson Mandela, of course, was instrumental in helping to bring an end to the terrible system of racial segregation and institutional discrimination known as “Apartheid” in South Africa.

 

Mandela was held in prison by the government, as a political prisoner, for twenty-seven years. He was finally released at the age of seventy-one. It was at that time that he led the nation to end Apartheid and to institute a genuine democracy with fair representation for all races. Personally I don’t agree with some of Mandela’s politics, he was a little too left of center for my tastes, but he was a strong and transformational leader who guided an entire society to a new and better chapter in their nation’s history.

 

One of Mandela’s outstanding character traits, as described by those closest to him, was that he was balanced, measured, and controlled. He was quietly confident, thoughtful, slow to respond, and when he did respond, it was in a balanced, measured, and controlled manner. He did not allow his emotions to drive his responses. He was intentionally and deliberately in control of himself, and he admired those traits in others. The highest words of praise Mandela had for anyone was “That person is balanced, measured, and controlled”. That was his phrase and he used it often. He admired that in others, and it was especially true of him.

 

Conversely, he was wary in his dealings with those who were not that way. Mandela was not one to be unfairly critical of others, but one of the most condemning observations he would ever offer about someone was, “That person is emotional, overly-sensitive, and easily offended.”

 

This is the lesson James was teaching in James 1:6-8. There he encourages us to be thoughtful, deliberate, and prayerful, always seeking wisdom from God. He writes that if we’re not that way, we will be like a person tossed about on the sea, double-minded, unstable, and at the mercy of our emotions. Such people typically do not honor God with their responses in difficult and tense situations.

 

I encourage you to practice being balanced, measured, and controlled in your thinking and speaking. Becoming that way requires prayer and discipline, but it is possible. This is a character trait we can learn, and which the Holy Spirit will develop in us.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:
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Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “I said, ‘I will guard my ways so that I may not sin with my tongue; I will guard my mouth with a muzzle as long as the wicked are in my presence.” Psalm 39:1 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “We are held to a higher standard.”

 

As Christians we know God holds us to a higher standard in our thinking, speaking, and acting. He expects us to be different than non-Christians. But we’re also held to a higher standard by the observing world. The truth is that the world expects us to practice what we preach and to behave better than they do.

 

It’s kind of funny that they would expect more of us than they do of themselves, but it’s true. An unbeliever can curse like a drunken sailor and they don’t see any problem with it, but if you respond to them with a word of profanity they will be surprised to hear such talk come out of your mouth and then they’ll accuse you of being a hypocrite.

 

Likewise, an unbeliever might receive too much change back from the cashier, and if they choose to keep it they might be thinking, “Well this is my lucky day!” as they slip the extra money into their pocket. But if they see you, a professing Christian, do the same thing, once again they will conclude that you are a hypocrite and that your professed faith evidently doesn’t make much of a difference in your life.

 

In Psalm 39:1 King David spoke of his efforts to guard his tongue so that he would not sin with his words. But then he also said that he was especially mindful of that when he was in the presence of the ungodly. It wasn’t that David didn’t make an effort at all times to control his speech, he did, but he was especially conscious of it when he was around unbelievers because a slip on his part, in their presence, would be a bad testimony.

 

The truth is that we are held to a higher standard of speech and conduct – by God Himself and also by the observing world. So paraphrasing the words of King David let me encourage you today to “put a muzzle on your mouth” – especially around non-Christians.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:

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3036 Genesis Road

Crossville, Tn 38571

Devotional for Wednesday August 8th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; for you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.” Proverbs 25:21-22 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “This is not a backhanded way of getting even.”

 

Yesterday I told you the story about the guy who made an unkind remark about my new book and how, despite my initial urge to respond in-kind with an insult of my own, I simply thanked him for his response and wished him a good day. It took a little restraint on my part to do that, but I have to admit there was also some satisfaction for being the adult and responding to an insult with a blessing.

 

In Proverbs 25:21-22 Solomon referred to blessing an adversary as “heaping burning coals on his head”. This is a colorful and somewhat humorous way for God to remind us to be nice to others. These two verses are simply part of a larger body of literature, found throughout both the Old and New Testaments, where God calls us to be bigger and better people than those who do not know Him. But what does Solomon mean by “heaping burning coals on his head”?

 

The image of burning coals being dumped over the other person’s head is meant to picture a hot sense of shame washing over the person from head to toe, as they realize how immature and inappropriate their own words were by comparison to yours. This is a subtle and kind way of shaming the other person into a sense of repentance. It’s about helping them to grow. God is pleased with us when we use our situations to demonstrate kindness that helps others to grow.

 

The idea here is that we don’t return evil with evil, instead we respond to an insult with a word of blessing. This is not so we can have some smug sense of superiority, but so we can help the other person to see how a godly man or woman responds when they have been insulted or dealt with unfairly. This is so others can see our good example and be influenced by it.

 

Love for God and for others sometimes requires us to swallow our pride, bite our tongue, and speak words of blessing when we would really rather give the person a little of their own medicine. So go ahead and heap burning coals on his head. But do it for the right reason and with the right attitude. This is not a backhanded way of getting even. It’s a kind attempt to help them repent and grow.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:

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3036 Genesis Road

Crossville, Tn 38571

Devotional for Tuesday August 7th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Finally, all of you be like-minded and sympathetic, love one another, and be compassionate and humble, not paying back evil for evil or insult for insult but on the contrary, giving a blessing since you were called for this, so that you may inherit a blessing.” 1 Peter 3:8-9 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Do not respond to an insult with an insult”

 

Yesterday I got to practice what I preach. For five weeks I’ve been writing devotional messages about “changing the tone of the conversation”, and I’ve been encouraging all of us to practice restraint in how we converse with those with whom we disagree. Yesterday I got to practice that restraint.

 

Although there are many problems associated with the social media platform “Facebook”, one of the positive aspects of it is that it often reestablishes contact between people who haven’t seen each other in decades. Thanks to Facebook I have regular contact with old Navy buddies I served with in Vietnam. I have contact with cousins who I haven’t seen since I was a child. And I’m part of a Facebook group that includes anyone who grew up in my hometown of Edison, New Jersey. It was that site that brought me my challenge yesterday.

 

A few days ago I released my latest book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict” (available at http://www.JimMersereauBooks.com). One way I’m promoting the book is with posts on Facebook and by asking others to share my posts on their own Facebook pages. Yesterday I posted a promo for the book on the “I grew up in Edison, New Jersey” group page. Well, one individual who saw the post (a person I don’t know and who presumably doesn’t know me either), took exception to the Christian nature of the book and had something unkind to say about it.

 

I found it a bit ironic that a book whose primary objective is to get people to be kind in the way they discuss their differences, evoked an unkind remark from that guy. I chuckled about the irony of it for a moment, but then I had to decide how I would respond. My initial instinct was to fire off a snarky response right back at him, but that would have simply served to invite a sharp response back. It would also have damaged my credibility, since it would have been the exact opposite of the message I was promoting in the book. So I bit my tongue, resisted the urge to respond in kind, and simply thanked him for his response and wished him a nice day.

 

Responding to an insult with an insult is never helpful. As Peter taught us in 1 Peter 3:8-9, it’s much better to respond to an insult with a word of blessing. I encourage you to make it a point that when you are insulted, instead of returning insult for insult give them a word of blessing instead.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:

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Devotional for Monday August 6th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but one slow to anger calms strife.” Proverbs 15:18 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Be the adult.”

 

I remember back in the mid-1970s when I was a young sailor serving in the U.S. Navy the Navy was experimenting with a psychoanalytic therapy called “Transactional Analysis”. “TA” as it was called for short, was a theory that maintained that most social transactions fit into one of three categories, parent-child, child-child, or adult-adult, and that those social transactions could be managed from that perspective.

 

So, if the person you are interacting with is acting like a child, you can assume the attitude of a mature adult, and your good example will help to inspire them to act like an adult too. If both of you are acting like children then either you’re just playing around and having fun, or one of you needs to knock it off and start acting like an adult so you can then inspire the other one to act like an adult too. And of course, the optimal situation for any social transaction would be for both parties to be conducting themselves as mature adults.

 

For a while the Navy actually held mandatory workshops that everyone had to attend so we could learn the TA strategies. It was kind of funny because in the days following a TA workshop you could walk around the ship, find two sailors in an argument, and inevitably others in the area would start shouting “TA!” “TA!” encouraging one or both of them to use a transactional analysis strategy to gain the upper hand in the argument.

 

In Proverbs 15:18 Solomon introduced us to what was perhaps the original TA strategy. There he reminds us that a hot-tempered person stirs up a conflict but one who is slow to anger calms things down. As a disagreement gets tense and emotions start to get in the way, a hot-tempered person will inevitably throw fuel on the fire by getting angry and saying things that make matters worse instead of better. But a person who is slow to anger, the one who can maintain control over his or her emotions and deal with the situation in a calm, reasoned manner, he or she is the one who can help to calm things down, or at least prevent them from escalating.

 

Transactional analysis turned out to be a passing fad, but the Proverbs of Solomon have endured for 3000 years. As Proverbs 15:18 teaches, I encourage you to be the reasonable adult who calms things down instead of stirring them up.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Our mailing address is:

Oak Hill Baptist Church

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