Devotional for Monday August 20th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Trust God in the hard times.”

 

Sometimes the tone that needs to change is our pessimistic, negative way of talking about the events of life. The things we say reveal what’s in our heart. That’s especially true in unguarded moments, and even more so in times of stress and pain and disappointment. That’s why it’s not uncommon to hear a person who is dealing with a difficult situation complaining and being excessively negative. Sometimes they even get mad at God.

 

Romans 8:28 is a very revealing verse which helps us to keep our life-situations in their proper perspective. There Paul says that all things (even the bad ones) ultimately work together for the good of those who love God. This means that God is at work behind the scenes of our lives bringing good things out of bad things. Paul did not mean that all things are good, because obviously not all things are good. But he did mean that God reaches into the middle of bad situations to bring good out of it for those who belong to Him. That’s true for you with respect to whatever you’re dealing with right now.

 

In his book “Disappointment with God” author Philip Yancey writes that when we’re dealing with all the pain, heartache, and difficulties life throws at us, when we’re tempted to get angry with God and we’re wondering why He’s allowing these things to happen, we must be careful not to confuse God with life. God is perfectly fair, but life is not. We live in a broken and bleeding world that is filled with sin and sickness, tragedy and unfairness. None of that was God’s desire or design, and it all grieves Him as much as it does us. But God and life are not the same things. Bad things happen to good people simply as a result of living in a broken world. That’s life. But a good and loving God is at work behind the scenes of life, in the midst of the pain and tragedy, bringing good things out of bad things for those who belong to Him.

 

Think about that. Dwell on it. Let it sink deep into your mind and heart. Whatever it is you are going through, God is there, at work behind the scenes, orchestrating some good thing to come out of it.

 

How we think about things will ultimately determine what we say and how we act. Ask God to change your perspective about the hardships of life and about His ongoing activities to help you in the midst of it all. When you change the way you think about it, you will change the way you talk about it.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Saturday and Sunday August 18-19

Good Morning Everyone,

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

Our Bible verse for today: “If your brother sins against you, go and rebuke him in private. If he listens to you, you have won your brother. But if he won’t listen, take one or two others with you, so that by the testimony of two or three witnesses every fact may be established. If he doesn’t pay attention to them, tell the church. If he doesn’t pay attention even to the church, let him be like a Gentile or a tax collector to you.” Matthew 18:15-17 (CSB)

Our thought for today: “Talk to the person, not about the person.”

As I write this it is Saturday morning. Tomorrow is Sunday and hopefully you will be gathered with your church family. Although most of the time church gatherings are a time of good fellowship and spiritual nurture, they can also be occasions for conflict, gossip, and slander. It’s often been said that “The only thing wrong with churches is that they’re full of people.” That’s funny but true. People have problems, and sometimes those problems play out in church life and cause conflict. C.S. Lewis wrote, “There’s always one thing more going on in every person’s life of which you know nothing.”

Everybody has issues. And that means that every person you encounter in church tomorrow will have at least one thing going on in their life that they wish wasn’t there, and which is causing them concern or heartache. Be sensitive to that! And be gentle.

In Matthew 18:15-17 Jesus provided us with a structure for conflict resolution. When there’s an issue between you and another person you are to go to that person privately and talk to them about the thing that’s bothering you. You are to do it in love and with the goal of resolving the issue and restoring the relationship. There’s a good reason Jesus has told us to do this. Our natural inclination is usually to avoid conflict and unpleasant encounters. But when we have something against someone we want to be able to talk about it. So since talking directly to the individual could be uncomfortable, we instead talk to others about the individual. This is where gossip and slander comes from.

There are only two reasons to discuss the situation with someone other than the person it pertains to. The first is to get their counsel so you will be prepared to go speak to the other person. The second reason is so you can ask that person to be one of the individuals in step two of Jesus’ process for conflict resolution. Step two is when you have one or two others go with you to speak to the individual to help resolve the issue.

The third step, if the first two didn’t work and if the issue is important enough, is to involve the entire church in the effort to resolve the problem and restore the relationship. But the situation would need to be serious indeed for it to arrive at this stage.

The point in all of this (in keeping with our theme of changing the tone of the conversation), is that we are to avoid gossip and slander – even gossip and slander dressed up as a prayer request! Jesus wants you to talk to the person, not about the person.

God Bless,
Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Friday August 17th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “I said, ‘I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin; I will put a muzzle on my mouth as long as the wicked are in my presence.’ I was speechless and quiet; I kept silent, even from speaking good, and my pain intensified. My heart grew hot within me; as I mused a fire burned. I spoke with my tongue: ‘Lord, make me aware of my end and the number of my days so that I will know how short-lived I am. In fact, you have made my life just inches long, and my life span is as nothing to you. Yes, every human being stands only as a vapor.” Psalm 39:1-5 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “The time is short. We must speak up.”

 

C.T. Studd was a famous professional athlete in England in the late 1880s and early 1900s. He played the game of Cricket and he was one of the best players in the nation. Studd was also a committed Christian who used his celebrity status as a platform to speak for Christ. Eventually he left professional sports to commit his full time to preaching, teaching, and missionary work.

 

Although in his day C.T. Studd was a well-known athlete, today he is famous for one of the more memorable lines he ever wrote: “Only one life, ‘twill soon be past; only what’s done for Christ will last.” He meant that in the most literal. He decided that his own time on earth was too precious to be spent in ways that ultimately wouldn’t matter. Life is short. We all have a limited amount of time to speak words that truly matter, and others have a limited amount of time to hear them. It’s during this lifetime that people must make their decision for Christ, and this life is short.

 

In Psalm 39:1-5 we read that for some reason King David came to a point that he decided to stop talking. Verse 1 seems to suggest he was tempted to speak in a sharp or unkind way. Or maybe he was frustrated that nobody was listening to him anyway. In any event, he resolved to say nothing. But soon he found that the message was burning a hole in his heart. Keeping it bottled up inside was becoming painful and it was getting to the point that he could hardly keep his mouth shut. He just had to let it out.

 

That’s the way it should be for all of us when it comes to speaking Biblical truth. Staying silent and keeping the message bottled up inside should become impossible. It should be like a volcanic eruption building up pressure until it can finally no longer be contained.

 

As we’ve been learning over these last six weeks, how we communicate the message matters – we need to be kind and respectful. But it’s also true that we need to speak up. Time is short and people will never hear Biblical truth if we don’t tell them. So we must speak whether they want to hear it or not, and whether they seem to be listening or not.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Thursday August 16th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “But the Lord replied to her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered and anxious about so many things …” Luke 10:41 (Amplified Bible)

 

Our thought for today: “Pay attention to the things that matter.”

 

The other day a friend and I were having a conversation about why people aren’t as responsive to important things as we think they should be. The actual topic we were discussing in this case was my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict”. The book was the product of a team effort. Although I wrote it, others helped with editing, cover design, publishing, and promotion. All of us involved in bringing the book to print believe strongly in the book. Sexual ethics present a difficult issue for Christians of our day and we believe the book conveys an important message in a helpful and easy-to-read format.

 

So we’ve all been a little surprised by the initial slow sales. It’s not that the book isn’t selling, it is, but we’re surprised by the large number of Christians who have seen the various promotions for it but who haven’t purchased a copy. Because sexual ethics is such an important cultural issue for Christians today, and since this book provides average Christians with accurate Biblical information on the issue, as well as good answers to difficult questions and a clear path forward for engaging the culture, you would think there would have been a better response.

 

However my friend made an important and helpful observation that I believe to be very accurate (and which Jesus addressed in Luke 10:41). She said, “Jim, people are just completely wrapped up in their own lives. Everyone is just so busy and so distracted that we miss a lot of things that ought to be important to us.”

 

I think she’s right. Because we’re so busy and so distracted we miss things we would otherwise pay attention to. That being the case, for those who are tasked by God to communicate Biblical truth on important issues, we have to keep at it and try extra hard. People can be reached but it takes extra effort to get their attention.

 

Yesterday I noted that in the Old Testament God continued to send prophets to speak messages the people of ancient Israel needed to hear. He kept communicating the message to them in hopes that they would hear it. While I don’t consider myself to be a prophet in that sense, I do have a message that is important and which I’m convinced the people of our day need to hear as well. And I am trying to communicate that message to people who are very busy and often distracted with the cares of life. So I continue to promote the book in every way I can.

 

If you don’t have your copy yet I encourage you to get yours today. You can order one online at www.JimMersereauBooks.com. Remember, all profits from the sales of the book are being donated to the Oak Hill Baptist Church missions and humanitarian relief projects. You can also help to promote it by sharing this message with those in your email address book or by reposting it on your Facebook page.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Wednesday August 15th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Still, the Lord warned Israel and Judah through every prophet and every seer, saying, ‘Turn from your evil ways and keep my commands and statutes according to the whole law I commanded your ancestors and sent to you through my servants the prophets.’ But they would not listen.” 2 Kings 17:13-14 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “It is our job to speak the truth.”

 

2 kings 17:13-14 is part of a longer passage which is sub-titled by the Bible translators “Why Israel Fell”. In that passage we read that the nation sinned; God sent them prophets to speak words of warning; but the people would not listen. So God punished them and the nation fell.

 

The other night my youngest son and I were discussing my new book, “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict” (available at www.JimMersereauBooks.com). He pointed out that in all of history no great nation has ever remained great. At some point every great nation has fallen. Most of them ceased to exist altogether, like Babylonia and Rome. But even those that have continued to exist, like Egypt and England, they’re just a shadow of their former great selves. In virtually every case those great nations fell because they decayed from within. They abandoned the principles and moral standards that made them great to begin with, and then their moral decadence became like a cancer which ate away at the foundations of their society. After that it was an easy thing for other nations to conquer them.

 

My son observed that that’s what’s happening in the USA. We’re progressively abandoning our foundational principles of morality and decency. It’s getting so bad that it’s become fashionable to even disrespect our national symbols like the flag and the national anthem, and to scorn our foundational Biblical principles. Unless this trend is reversed it will be the beginning of the end of America’s greatness. Sexual immorality is one of the issues destroying us as a nation and it’s exactly why I wrote my book – to help Christians to have clear, concise, well-reasoned words to speak on the subject of sexual ethics in our day.

 

In the case of ancient Israel, the Lord repeatedly sent prophets with words of caution and warning, but the people refused to listen. That might be the case in the USA as well. But just as in ancient Israel, the words of caution and warning must be spoken. As was noted in yesterday’s devotional, if we don’t say it, they won’t hear it. But if the truth is spoken, people will at least hear it, and some will respond.

 

As the people of God it’s our job to speak the truth, whether the nation wants to hear it or not, and whether they respond to it or not.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Tuesday August 14th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “How, then, can they call on him they have not believed in? And how can they believe without hearing about him? And how can they hear without a preacher? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written: How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news.” Romans 10:14-15 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it.”

 

Yesterday we thought about the fact that our society is putting increasing pressure on Christians to remain silent in the public arena. In television shows and movies Biblical beliefs are scorned and Christians are portrayed as cartoonish buffoons, or worse. The liberal news media focuses on stories about disturbed extremists who profess to be Christians but who behave very badly, and then those news reports are offered in such a way as to suggest those extremists are actually typical Christians. Atheistic college professors bully and ridicule Christian students in the classroom. All of that and more contributes to the pressure Christians feel to remain silent about Biblical issues.

 

In Romans 10:14-15 Paul instructed us to go into the world, speaking words of truth and Good News. The primary message to be spoken is the Good News that through faith in Christ our sins can be forgiven by God. But along with that primary message, the followers of Christ must also speak-up for Biblical principles as they pertain to the situations we encounter.

 

In our society today the general population is increasingly Biblically illiterate. People simply do not know what the Bible says about the life situations they’re facing, and they will not know, unless some Biblically informed Christian tells them. How can they know if nobody tells them? If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it.

 

As was discussed yesterday, the Holy Spirit will give us words and courage. But the words the Holy Spirit gives us are the words we have taken the time to read, study, and memorize. He then brings those truths to our minds at the time we need them. It’s a difficult thing for the Spirit to bring to our mind things we never bothered to put into our mind to begin with. This is why Bible study is so important.

 

This is also why it’s important to read good books that explain Biblical principles as they pertain to current social issues. That’s the reason I wrote my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict”. The book consists of thirty-four short and easy-to-read essays designed to give Christians the basic information we need in order to speak intelligently and confidently about the subject of sexual ethics. If you don’t have your copy of it yet you can get one at www.JimMersereauBooks.com.

 

If we don’t say it, they won’t hear it. We must be prepared to speak Biblical truth.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Monday August 13th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation:

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Whenever they bring you before synagogues and rulers and authorities, don’t worry about how you should defend yourselves or what you should say. For the Holy Spirit will teach you at that very hour what must be said.” Luke 12:11-12 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Sometimes the tone that needs to be changed is the silence.”

 

Increasingly today Christians are being silenced in the public arena. We’re being told to keep our beliefs to ourselves, or there are attempts to shame us into silence by portraying Biblical beliefs as archaic and silly. As a result, many Christians choose to be silent rather than face potential opposition or scorn.

 

This is not okay. We are commanded by Jesus to be His witnesses in the world. We are instructed to promote and contend for Biblical principles in an ungodly society. Granted, doing so can be risky, and it can cost us, therefore we need courage in order to speak up.

 

Sometimes we mistakenly believe that courage is the absence of fear. It is not. Courage is overcoming your fear and acting anyway. Courage is not letting the fear defeat you and hold you back from doing and saying the things that need to be done and said. Fear is a natural emotion experienced by everyone and it is actually a good thing. Fear alerts us to danger and causes us to be cautious. Courage is a choice to push past the fear and do what needs to be done – albeit cautiously, but taking action nonetheless.

 

In Luke 12:11-12 Jesus gave His disciples some instructions about what to do when they needed to have the courage to speak-up in situations where speaking-up would not be easy. He told them to rely on the Holy Spirit. He did not tell them to avoid such situations, or to remain silent in them in order to avoid the wrath of the listeners. He told them to look to the Spirit for courage and guidance and then to speak on His behalf. That’s the answer for us too.

 

Today we live in a society that is increasingly anti-Christian. In a land that celebrates “freedom of speech” Biblical speech is becoming increasingly unacceptable. Our response should not be to remain silent. We must speak-up with confidence and courage, but also with kindness and respect.

 

If you haven’t already done so, I encourage you to get a copy of my new book “Getting Along without Going Along: Biblical Sexual Ethics in an Age of Controversy and Conflict.” The main theme of the book is sexual ethics, but the lessons and strategies for how to speak-out in difficult situations apply to all subjects. You can get your copy at www.JimMersereauBooks.com.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Stay calm and pray about it.”

 

It’s often difficult to remain calm in tense situations, especially if that tense situation is a heated conversation about an issue you care deeply about. In such cases it’s not uncommon for tempers to rise, emotions begin to boil, and the situation begins to spiral out of control. The key is to pray about it and to stay calm.

 

Yesterday I told you the story about Nelson Mandela and how it was that one of his outstanding character traits was his ability to remain balanced, measured, and controlled in his thinking, decision-making, speaking, and actions. I want to continue that discussion today.

 

In tense or turbulent situations it’s imperative for us to stay calm and in control. Lose control and you lose the situation. Your ability to control yourself and to stay calm helps to keep everyone else calm as well. Fear and anxiety are contagious, but so is a confident sense of calm and control. This is one of the most important traits of a leader. Army General and former Secretary of State in the George W. Bush administration, Colin Powell, is another one of the leaders I admire. He had a long list of what he called “Powell’s Principles”. It was a list of the leadership principles he considered to be most important for any successful leader. One of them was, “Never let them see you sweat.”

 

When I was a young naval officer I was trained to be the Officer of the Deck on an aircraft carrier. I was the guy who stood on the bridge, binoculars poised, looking like Admiral Halsey, saying, “Helmsman, right full rudder. Steady on course 180”, and cool stuff like that. A principle that was drilled into those of us trained for that position was what was called “Command Presence”. “Command Presence” was an image you needed to project that you were calm and in control at all times. Internally your mind might be racing and your heart might be pounding, but outwardly, as far as anyone else could see, you were a rock.

 

All of us need to learn how to be calm and in control. Paul teaches in Philippians 4:6-7 that we are to pray about all things. So bring those tense situations to the Lord and ask Him to give you a sense of calmness, control, and peace. Ask Him to help you be the one who calms things down and who has a positive influence on everyone else. Just stay calm and pray about it.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Devotional for Friday August 10th

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “But he must ask (for wisdom) in faith, without doubting (God’s willingness to help), for the one who doubts is like a billowing surge of the sea that is blown about and tossed by the wind. For such a person ought not to think or expect that he will receive anything (at all) from the Lord, being a double-minded man, unstable and restless in all his ways (in everything he thinks, feels, or decides). James 1:6-8 (Amplified Bible)

 

Our thought for today: “Be balanced, measured, and controlled.”

 

One of the books I’m currently reading is “Mandela’s Way: Lessons for an Uncertain Age”. It’s essentially a summary of Nelson Mandela’s leadership principles. Nelson Mandela, of course, was instrumental in helping to bring an end to the terrible system of racial segregation and institutional discrimination known as “Apartheid” in South Africa.

 

Mandela was held in prison by the government, as a political prisoner, for twenty-seven years. He was finally released at the age of seventy-one. It was at that time that he led the nation to end Apartheid and to institute a genuine democracy with fair representation for all races. Personally I don’t agree with some of Mandela’s politics, he was a little too left of center for my tastes, but he was a strong and transformational leader who guided an entire society to a new and better chapter in their nation’s history.

 

One of Mandela’s outstanding character traits, as described by those closest to him, was that he was balanced, measured, and controlled. He was quietly confident, thoughtful, slow to respond, and when he did respond, it was in a balanced, measured, and controlled manner. He did not allow his emotions to drive his responses. He was intentionally and deliberately in control of himself, and he admired those traits in others. The highest words of praise Mandela had for anyone was “That person is balanced, measured, and controlled”. That was his phrase and he used it often. He admired that in others, and it was especially true of him.

 

Conversely, he was wary in his dealings with those who were not that way. Mandela was not one to be unfairly critical of others, but one of the most condemning observations he would ever offer about someone was, “That person is emotional, overly-sensitive, and easily offended.”

 

This is the lesson James was teaching in James 1:6-8. There he encourages us to be thoughtful, deliberate, and prayerful, always seeking wisdom from God. He writes that if we’re not that way, we will be like a person tossed about on the sea, double-minded, unstable, and at the mercy of our emotions. Such people typically do not honor God with their responses in difficult and tense situations.

 

I encourage you to practice being balanced, measured, and controlled in your thinking and speaking. Becoming that way requires prayer and discipline, but it is possible. This is a character trait we can learn, and which the Holy Spirit will develop in us.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Changing the tone of the conversation”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “I said, ‘I will guard my ways so that I may not sin with my tongue; I will guard my mouth with a muzzle as long as the wicked are in my presence.” Psalm 39:1 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “We are held to a higher standard.”

 

As Christians we know God holds us to a higher standard in our thinking, speaking, and acting. He expects us to be different than non-Christians. But we’re also held to a higher standard by the observing world. The truth is that the world expects us to practice what we preach and to behave better than they do.

 

It’s kind of funny that they would expect more of us than they do of themselves, but it’s true. An unbeliever can curse like a drunken sailor and they don’t see any problem with it, but if you respond to them with a word of profanity they will be surprised to hear such talk come out of your mouth and then they’ll accuse you of being a hypocrite.

 

Likewise, an unbeliever might receive too much change back from the cashier, and if they choose to keep it they might be thinking, “Well this is my lucky day!” as they slip the extra money into their pocket. But if they see you, a professing Christian, do the same thing, once again they will conclude that you are a hypocrite and that your professed faith evidently doesn’t make much of a difference in your life.

 

In Psalm 39:1 King David spoke of his efforts to guard his tongue so that he would not sin with his words. But then he also said that he was especially mindful of that when he was in the presence of the ungodly. It wasn’t that David didn’t make an effort at all times to control his speech, he did, but he was especially conscious of it when he was around unbelievers because a slip on his part, in their presence, would be a bad testimony.

 

The truth is that we are held to a higher standard of speech and conduct – by God Himself and also by the observing world. So paraphrasing the words of King David let me encourage you today to “put a muzzle on your mouth” – especially around non-Christians.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

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