Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Let your graciousness be known to everyone.” Philippians 4:5 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Graciousness, like ungraciousness, is contagious.”

 

In his book “What’s so Amazing about Grace?” Philip Yancey tells the story of a family that was plagued by generational ungraciousness. It started with the father of a young girl by the name of Daisy in the early 1900s. He was a tyrannical alcoholic who was merciless in his physical and verbal abuse. Daisy hated him and swore she would never be like him.

 

She wasn’t, in that she never touched a drop of alcohol in her life. But sadly she was like him in her tyrannical attitude towards her own family. Daisy grew into a tense, depressed, and easily agitated woman who was complaining and critical – especially towards her children. Daisy’s daughter Margret was especially impacted by that treatment. She disliked her mother and resented the way her mother treated her. But as is so often the case, she ended up becoming just like her – tense, depressed, and very critical. In the late 1960s, when Margret’s son Michael became a hippy, Margret complained about his lifestyle and criticized him without mercy, until she finally drove him away. He was in his late teens when that happened and they never did restore the relationship. So in that family there were four generations infected by the spirit of ungraciousness and it continued to spread.

 

Yancey writes, “Like a spiritual defect encoded in the family DNA, ungrace gets passed on in an unbroken chain. Ungrace does its work quietly and lethally, like a poisonous, undetectable gas.”

 

Graciousness, and ungraciousness, are both contagious and are easily passed along to those closest to us – especially to young children. Our own attitude and demeanor has more of an impact on the people around us than we realize. Very often those closest to you will in time begin to reflect elements of your personality. Don’t allow an attitude of ungraciousness to be your legacy. If you are somewhere in the daisy-chain of a heritage of ungrace, you can be the one who breaks the chain and stops the spread of that spiritual defect.

 

Graciousness is a powerful force for good and can have a great impact on those around you. Likewise, ungraciousness is a terrible force for evil and can do great damage. I urge you to choose grace.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners – and I am the worst of them.” 1 Timothy 1:15 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Nobody is beyond the reach of God’s grace.”

 

The other day in the mail I received the “2018 World Watch List” from the ministry Open Doors USA. Open Doors is a ministry that monitors Christian persecution around the world.

 

The annual “World Watch List” lists the 50 countries where it is most dangerous to follow Jesus. North Korea is #1 on that list. Afghanistan is #2. Rounding out the top ten are Somalia, Sudan, Pakistan, Eritrea, Libya, Iraq, Yemen, and Iran. Others of note on the list include India, Saudi Arabia, Syria, Egypt, China, Mexico, and Bangladesh.

 

As I read reports of what is done to Christians in other places around the world I’m reminded of how cruel humans can be to one another. It’s not uncommon for Christians to be arrested, imprisoned, tortured, and killed for their faith. What kind of person does that to another? Well, people like the Apostle Paul. Paul, in his former life as the Pharisee Saul, did exactly that, and worse. He was brutal in his treatment of Christians. That’s what he was referring to in 1 Timothy 1:15 when he called himself “the worst of sinners.” That was a period in his life he ended up being greatly ashamed of and he referred to it several times in his Biblical writings.

 

What does that have to do with our theme of “graciousness”? Two things: First, there is nobody beyond the reach of God’s grace. Even someone as despicable as the murderous Pharisee Saul could be reached for Christ, led to faith, and transformed into a person who would be known as “the Apostle of Grace”. Paul went from being a cruel murderous persecutor of Christians to being so gracious that grace became the primary theme in his ministry and writings, and he even authored the most famous and influential essay on grace that has ever been written, the letter to the Galatians. If Saul could be reached by Christ then anyone can be.

 

The second lesson for us to learn from this is that in our dealings with despicable people, we need to remember that this person can potentially be led to faith in Christ and transformed into an entirely different person. So we want to deal with them graciously. That does not mean that we excuse their abhorrent behavior, nor are we to allow ourselves to be a doormat the person can walk all over. We will stand up to them and we will oppose their inexcusable conduct, but we must do it with a strong sense of confident graciousness. It is possible to be strong and firm, and still be gracious.

 

Want an example of that? Look at Peter and the other Apostles appearing before the Jewish leaders in Acts 5:29. They refused to comply with unjust treatment by simply saying, “We must obey God rather than men.” Or look at Paul himself in Acts 22 on trial before King Agrippa. He vigorously defended himself, but he did so graciously and respectfully.

 

Remember that nobody is beyond the reach of Christ, not even the worst of people. Be strong and firm when dealing with such people, but do it with grace.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Nathan replied to David, ‘You are the man!” 2 Samuel 12:7 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “It’s all in how you say it.”

 

Our graciousness, or lack of it, is usually conveyed by our words. Words are powerful and they are our primary means of communication, so the content and tone of our words will determine whether or not they are perceived as being gracious or not.

 

But what do we do when we have a difficult word of truth that must be spoken to someone and there is the danger of it not being well received? One possible approach was modeled for us by the Old Testament prophet Nathan. He had to confront King David regarding his adultery with Bathsheba and the murder of Bathsheba’s husband Uriah.

 

The entire story can be found in 2 Samuel chapters 11-12 but the gist of it is that David seduced Bathsheba, who was married to Uriah, and he got her pregnant. David then ordered the murder of Uriah and he married Bathsheba himself. In chapter 12 we read that God directed Nathan to confront David with his sin and announce the punishment that God was going to inflict on him.

 

Well how do you deliver a message like that to a king? David was known for his temper and he could easily have ordered Nathan arrested and executed. So instead of marching right in and delivering the message like he was swinging a sledgehammer, Nathan got creative. He told David a made-up story about a rich man who had huge herds and flocks of his own, and a neighboring poor man who had only one little lamb which he kept as a pet and treated as a member of the family.

 

One day the rich man received an unexpected visitor and needed to quickly prepare a meal for him. Not wanting to slaughter one of his own sheep, he had a servant burst into the poor man’s house, take his little lamb, slaughter it, and serve it to his guest. When King David heard this (thinking it was a true story) he exploded in rage and ordered the rich man to be punished. Nathan then told the king that it was not a real story. Instead it was an illustration of what he (David) had done to Uriah and therefore God was now going to bring upon David the punishment that David himself had just said the rich man in the story deserved.

 

My point here is that Nathan delivered the tough message, but he did it in a creative way. Rather than simply marching in and delivering it with a sledgehammer, he was thoughtful and creative about it and as a result, his words had the necessary impact.

 

Sometimes being gracious requires us to be creative rather than direct. It’s not just what you say, but how you say it.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “May the Lord bless you and protect you; may the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; may the Lord look with favor on you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Intentionally speak gracious words of blessing”

 

Two days ago Billy Graham died. I’ve always had great admiration for Billy, for many reasons, but one reason is that he was such a gracious man. Like Moses, Billy had a habit of speaking words of blessing upon people. It seemed so natural for him. The words of kindness and compassion just seemed to flow. He was a gracious man and his speech revealed that about him.

 

Being known for his graciousness is all the more remarkable considering how much he spoke. Preachers commonly joke among ourselves that “misspeaking” is an occupational hazard for us. If you talk enough sooner or later you will say something that is wrong, or which comes across wrong because of the words or tone you used. At other times you will say something insensitive or use an illustration that was misplaced or inappropriate for the audience. That happens because you didn’t give enough thought to it before you said it. At such times you do not come across as gracious and you often end up wishing you had not said what you said. The more you have to talk, the more likely such occasions become. But that was rare for Billy Graham. Somehow he managed to be gracious all the time.

 

I think that comes from intentionality. We decide we want to be a gracious person and then we train ourselves to think gracious thoughts and to speak gracious words. If we do that, over time, graciousness becomes the norm for us and any thought or word that is not gracious stands out like a flashing red light because it just does not fit with who we are.

 

Are you intentionally gracious with your words and manner? It’s harder for some of us than for others. You may have a personality that leans towards critical thoughts and unkind words. Or you may be in a profession that requires you to speak a lot about difficult subjects. For a variety of reasons gracious thinking and gracious speaking might be a challenge for you, but we can all learn to be more gracious by being intentional about it and training ourselves in graciousness.

 

Train yourself to think gracious thoughts, and then be intentional about speaking gracious words.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “One of his disciples, the one Jesus loved, was reclining close beside Jesus … This is the disciple who testifies to these things …” John 13:23; 21:24 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “What if you lived like you’re loved?”

 

There’s a song by the artist Hawk Nelson which is popular on Christian radio right now. The title is “Live like you’re loved”. The chorus goes:

 

“So go ahead and live like you’re loved

It’s ok to act like you’ve been set free

His love has made you more than enough

So go ahead and be who he made you to be.”

 

What if we really did live like we knew we are loved by God? How much would that change us? Sociologists have a theory they call “The Looking-Glass Self”. This theory holds that over time a child will become what the most important person in their life thinks they are. So if the most important person to that child is their mother, and if the mother constantly tells the child they are stupid, the child will inevitably do poorly in school. But if the mother constantly affirms the child’s intelligence, that child will do well. You will become what the most important person in your life believes you to be.

 

Jesus was the most important person in the life of the Apostle John. Early on, when John first began following Jesus, Jesus playfully referred to him and his brother James as “The Sons of Thunder!” That was because John and James were rough tough fishermen with short tempers and loud mouths. But Jesus knew John could be different and better. After spending three years with Jesus, and realizing that he was deeply loved by Jesus, John changed into the man Jesus believed him to be. Historically John became known as “The Apostle of Love”. That was because being loved by Jesus was the most important reality in John’s life and it is what formed his personality. It changed John to the point that he went from being a “Son of Thunder” to “the Apostle of Love.”

 

What if we lived like we knew we are loved? Philip Yancey asks the question, “How would my life change if I truly believed the Bible’s astounding words about God’s love for me, if I looked in the mirror and saw what God sees?”

 

Becoming a gracious person begins with receiving God’s grace. You can’t give what you don’t have. So first and foremost, receive His grace and know that you are loved. Then His grace and His love will change you. You will begin to become the person He knows you can be.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “I delight in your commands, which I love. I will lift up my hands to your commands, which I love, and will mediate on your statutes. Remember your word to your servant; you have given me hope through it. This is my comfort in my affliction: Your promise has given me life.” Psalm 119:47-48 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “We need equal measures of grace and truth.”

 

Psalm 119 is the longest of the Psalms and it is the longest chapter in the Bible. It is 176 verses celebrating the beauty of the Word of God. It begins with the joyful declaration: “How happy are those whose way is blameless, who walk according to the Lord’s instruction! Happy are those who keep his decrees and seek him with all their heart.” 119:1-2

 

What’s interesting about Psalm 119, and what also tends to be true of the Bible in general, is that it alternates between roughly equal measures of grace and truth. We are told we need to know and obey God’s commands, and then we’re told about how blessed we will be if we do that. The clear lesson is that the best life you will ever have is the one that is lived in obedience to God’s commands, because that then keeps you within the Biblical boundaries whereby God can bless you.

 

This is why God gives us equal measures of grace and truth. The truth is for our own good and is designed to help us live well. The grace is because He loves us and thoroughly enjoys blessing us. Because God so wants to bless us, He gives us all the truth we need in order to live in such a way that He can bless. Author Mark Batterson explained it this way: “Grace means I’ll love you no matter what. Truth means I’ll be honest with you no matter what.”

 

That’s what God does for us and it’s what we need to do for each other. We need to love each other no matter what, and we need to speak Biblical truth to each other no matter what. And as long as we do love each other without condition and without reservation, the truth will be communicated in a gracious manner.

 

Psalm 119 is a great testimony from a writer who learned from personal experience the value of knowing God’s Word and then living by it. He found that his life was blessed when he did, and troubled when he didn’t. He then went on to share that wisdom with the rest of us in this Psalm.

 

The great preacher and writer Charles Spurgeon once observed, “A Bible that is falling apart usually belongs to someone who isn’t.” God wants you to live well and to live blessed. In the Bible He has provided all the truth we need in order to live in a way He can bless.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “You reveal the path of life to me; in your presence is abundant joy; at your right hand are eternal pleasures.” Psalm 16:11 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Your circumstances should not determine your attitude.”

 

People often make the mistake of thinking they would be happier, nicer, more content, not as grumpy, and they would have more joy, etc, if their circumstances were different. If their spouse was nicer, if they had a better job, if their co-workers were more competent, if they lived somewhere else … if, if, if, then life would be better.

 

But generally that’s not true. There is no perfect spouse. There are no faultless co-workers, no stress-free jobs, and no ideal places to live. There’s something wrong with everything and every one. A joyful and gracious countenance has nothing to do with your occupation, your education, your income level, your geography, or your spouse. A winsome personality doesn’t happen because everything in your life is perfect. Instead it’s a matter of who you are as a person and the condition of your relationship with God.

 

If you are consistently unhappy, and if you find yourself struggling with relationships at home, on the job, and elsewhere in life, there’s a pretty good chance the problem isn’t external it’s internal. The problem isn’t them it’s you. You are the common denominator in all of that.

 

You’ve probably heard it said, “Wherever you go, there you are.” In other words, “You take yourself with you wherever you go.” So if you are unhappy in one setting, and then in another, and in still another, there’s a pretty good chance that will continue to be true even if the setting changes again – and it will be because you took yourself with you everywhere you went.

 

The answer to that dilemma is touched on by the Psalmist in Psalm 16:11, “in the presence of the Lord there is joy.” In other words, if your relationship with the Lord is strong and well-developed it will produce a deep sense of joy in you. That then is what you will carry with you wherever you go. And that joy of the Lord will be the factor that determines your demeanor, not whatever the circumstances happen to be at any given moment and in any given place.

 

It’s easy to believe that if we can improve the circumstances of our lives then we’ll be truly happy. So if we lose weight, meet the right person, get a better job, or whatever, then everything will be better. But the truth is that the best thing any of us can do is to develop that deep and abiding joy-producing relationship with the Lord. That then will be the condition of your heart and that will determine your attitude. And your attitude will then impact and influence your circumstances, rather than the other way around.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “Let me inherit a double portion of your spirit.” 2 Kings 2:9 (NIV)

 

Our thought for today: “You can be both gracious and bold.”

 

The Old Testament prophet Elisha is an interesting study in contrasts between great boldness and gentle graciousness. Elisha had served as a personal assistant and understudy to the prophet Elijah. He saw Elijah perform many miracles, and he heard Elijah boldly preach prophetic words from God – even to the point of confronting and challenging kings and queens.

 

When it was getting close to the time for Elijah to leave this life and to be transported to heaven Elisha boldly declared that he wanted to inherit a double portion of Elijah’s power. Not just that he wanted to follow in Elijah’s footsteps, and not just that he hoped to maybe one day become as great a prophet as Elijah, he wanted to be twice the prophet Elijah had been – and he said so!

 

And sure enough, Elisha did inherit the mantle of Elijah’s ministry and he did go on to perform twice as many miracles as Elijah did. Also, Elisha had a long ministry of boldly proclaiming the words of God, and of standing strong in the face of hostile kings and armies. Elisha was a very bold man indeed.

 

But he was also an exceedingly kind, compassionate, and gracious man. He had a soft spot for widows, providing food and protection for them. He had compassion on a grieving mother and raised her dead son back to life. He fed hungry prophets, purified the water supply for a thirsty town, healed an Aramean general who was suffering from leprosy, stopped an epidemic of food poisoning, and much more. In addition to being bold and fearless, Elisha was kind-hearted, caring, and gracious.

 

It is possible to be both. Boldness and graciousness do not cancel each other out. As the people of God we should be bold. Like Elisha we shouldn’t hesitate to ask God to do great things in us and through us. He is a mighty God who loves to accomplish magnificent things through his faithful people. So ask Him to empower you and to use you.

 

But at the same time be gracious about it. Be kind and caring. Look out for the little guy, help those who are struggling, encourage those who are down, cuddle a baby, hug a widow, visit a sick person.

 

We should be bold and confident as we go out into the world in the name of Jesus proclaiming Biblical truth, and at the same time we can help to make the world a better place by spreading kindness and compassion too. You can be both bold and gracious.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “I have had enough! Lord, take my life, for I’m no better than my fathers.” 1 Kings 19:4 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “Challenges make us humble, and humble people are gracious people.”

 

In some respects the scene recorded in 1 Kings 19:4 is sad. The great prophet Elijah was physically and emotionally exhausted and he was depressed. He was in hiding from Queen Jezebel, who was trying to have him killed, and he had given-up to the point that he wished he was dead. Considering what a powerful man of God Elijah was, and how much success he had in ministry, it’s difficult to see him in this condition now.

 

But on the other hand, it shows us that Elijah was human. It also shows that he didn’t think too highly of himself. As great as other people thought he was, Elijah knew he wasn’t really that different or any better than everyone else, “for I’m no better than my fathers.”

 

Trials, tribulations, and an occasional failure are actually good for us. They keep us humble. This is especially true when a person experiences a little more success than is probably good for them. In such cases it’s too easy to get a big head and to start thinking you’re really something special – the proverbial cat’s pajamas – too cool for school.

 

Challenges, trials, tribulations, and even some failures help to keep us grounded. We find the proof of this all throughout the Bible. Moses was too humble to believe he was qualified for the assignment God wanted to give him. Then, even once he had accepted the assignment and received empowerment from God, he continued to face difficulties he couldn’t handle and failures for which he was ashamed. Even after decades of successful leadership and ministry he was still the most humble man on the earth (Numbers 12:13).

 

We find similar stories in the lives of Joseph, Gideon, David, Isaiah, and Jeremiah, just to name a few. They were all great men of God who benefited from experiencing trials and tribulations and failures. Then of course there were others who needed to experience a big fall in order to get their heads on straight. I’m thinking of Samson, Jonah, and Peter, just to name three.

 

A little humble pie for dinner every once in a while is a good thing. It helps us to remember that we’re really no better than anyone else. Gracious people are humble people, and challenges help to keep us humble.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim

Good Morning Everyone,

 

Our theme for this month: “Graciousness”

 

Our Bible verse for today: “He gives strength to the faint and strengthens the powerless. Youths may become faint and weary, and young men stumble and fall, but those who trust in the Lord will renew their strength; they will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not become weary, they will walk and not faint.” Isaiah 40:29-31 (CSB)

 

Our thought for today: “The Lord will strengthen you.”

 

I enjoy hiking. Over the years I’ve hiked in many different terrains including long miles on straight beaches, easy walks on nature trails, slightly more challenging treks in the Smoky Mountains, and I’ve even done some hiking along the ancient stone trails of Machu Picchu in the Andes Mountains of Peru.

 

Although I enjoy all types of hiking, by far the most interesting and enjoyable are those hikes with varied terrains (like in the Andes). The problem with such hikes of course, is that the level of difficulty changes frequently depending on the terrain. Some parts of it are easy and others require great effort and exertion.

 

A hike through spectacular mountains with changing terrain and varying degrees of difficulty is not unlike our walk through life. The Bible often describes our journey through this world as “walking with the Lord”. And like those hikes through the mountains, the difficulty of the terrain we encounter in our walk through life can vary greatly.

 

In Isaiah 40:29-31 the prophet gives us some advice about how to handle those times when the journey gets tough and we find ourselves struggling. We’re to look to the Lord to renew our strength and energy. If we do that, we will soar as if we are on wings of eagles. In other words, God will help us to handle even the most difficult times well.

 

This is an important point, especially with respect to our theme of graciousness. A hike through the Andes Mountains is hard, and it requires you to reach deep for reserves of strength and energy if you’re going to keep going. But the reward is the spectacular vistas you get to see and the satisfaction and sense of achievement when you’ve successfully reached the top.

 

Likewise in life. With the Lord not only can you find the strength to push through the hard places along the way, but you can soar through them as if you were being carried along on wings of eagles. Rather than trudging wearily through your days, you lift your head high, you smile and are nice to people, and not only do you find blessings for yourself even when the journey is hard, but you find ways to extend blessings to others you meet along the way. That’s graciousness in the midst of difficulty. It’s finding joy in the most difficult parts of the journey. And it comes when you turn to the Lord for strength and renewal.

 

You can be gracious even in the most difficult places in your journey through life. Turn to the Lord and He will lift you up. He will strengthen you and He will enable you to soar.

 

God Bless,

Pastor Jim