Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Each of you is to take up a stone on his shoulder, according to the number of the tribes of the Israelites, to serve as a sign among you. In the future, when your children ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them …” Joshua 4:5-7 (NIV)   Our thought for today: “Set a memorial marker”   It has been almost six months since my wife Linda died. Over those months I have written about her multiple times in devotional messages – if doing so had something to do with the topic of the devotional for that day. It has been helpful for me to do that. Talking and writing is therapeutic. Grief counselors tell us that grieving spouses want and need other people to say their spouses name, to talk about him or her, and to listen as they talk about them. So, thank you for being patient with me as I share a personal insight with you that is important to me at this time in my life, but which might be helpful to you as well.   Recently the Lord brought me to an important understanding as I move along this road of grief and recovery. Linda and I had forty-seven good years together as life partners. Together we built a good life. She played a key role in everything I accomplished over those years. My life going forward from here will be built upon the foundation of the life we built together over those years. Therefore, Linda’s influence in my life will continue. She will always be a part of me. Going forward, I will remember and treasure those memories, but I will also live fully in the present and I will move forward into the future. I’m pretty certain I will never marry again. I plan to remain a single man the rest of my life. But I also believe the Lord still has a lot for me to do for Him and therefore I need to focus my attention on that.   To memorialize and solidify in my mind and heart that moment of insight from God, I did what the Israelites did in Joshua 4:5-7. The Israelites set stones at the banks of the Jordan River to establish a memorial marker as a symbol of God’s past faithfulness; and of His presence with them in that moment; and for His promise for the future. In my case, I laid a stone at the foot of the cross that we keep on the stage in our church for that purpose. That stone is a memorial marker to thank God for those forty-seven years with Linda, and for the truth that He is with me now in this difficult time, and that He will continue to be with me as I move forward into the future.   Establishing memorials and setting markers like that are indications of renewed hope. Perhaps you have something that you need to give to God as you work to establish a sense of renewed hope in your own life. Continue working on that, and when God gives you some clarity about it, set a marker as a memorial of the moment. The memorial could be anything – perhaps a stone at the foot of the cross – or just something visual to remind you of the moment.   It’s important and helpful for us to remember the past. But then we must resolve to live in the present and move forward into the future. I still miss Linda terribly every day, and I still have periods of sadness every day – sometimes deep sadness. But I also know I have more life to live and that God has more for me to do. A memorial marker can help us honor the past and move forward into the future with renewed hope.     God bless, Pastor Jim      (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “I waited patiently for the Lord, and he turned to me and heard my cry for help. He brought me up from a desolate pit, out of the muddy clay, and set my feet on a rock, making my steps secure. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.” Psalm 40:1-3 (CSB)   Our thought for today: “May God put a new song in your heart”   Yesterday we thought about dancing. This morning let’s think about singing. Do you love music? I love music. All kinds of music. I suppose my tastes would be described as eclectic. I listen to lots of contemporary Christian music but I also like old-time gospel, jazz, blues, bluegrass, reggae, pop, some country, and even classical. I also like Jimmy Buffet beach music. I love the beach and I love the music of the beach. Songs about sun, sand, sea, swimming, and seafood – and being on vacation. Jimmy’s music reminds me of all that.   One wall of my office at home is covered with flying things. Mostly it is covered with butterfly displays that I brought home from my mission trips to the Amazon Jungle. It also has a framed crocheted University of Kansas Jayhawk (my alma mater) that Linda made for me more than forty years ago. It also has a picture of me skydiving. But in the center of the wall there’s a large round plaque with a big parrot with a guitar in its claws. The inscription reads “Live life like a song” (a Jimmy Buffet saying).   I like the idea of living life like a song. Or, more precisely, living life with a song in my heart. Music can lift our spirits. That’s what King David was writing about in Psalm 40:1-3. He had been despondent but he sought the Lord and when he did, the Lord lifted him up out of the pit of despondency and put a new song in his heart – in this case, a hymn of praise.   One of the best things we can do when we are feeling down is to listen to inspiring music. It will lift you up. In his book, “You Gotta Keep Dancin” author Tim Hansel shares a poem by an unknown author that speaks of the value of both singing and dancing when it comes to lifting our spirits:   “Giver of life, creator all that is lovely, teach me to sing the words of your song; I want to feel the music of living, and not fear the sad songs, but from them make new songs, composed of both laughter and tears. Teach me to dance to the sounds of your world and your people, I want to move in rhythm with your plan. Help me to try to follow your leading, to risk even falling, to rise and keep trying, because you are leading the dance.”   May God put a new song in your heart today.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “You have turned my mourning into dancing. You have taken away my clothes of mourning and clothed me with joy, that I might sing praises to you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever!” Psalm 30:11-12 (NLT)   Our thought for today: “You will just have to keep dancing”   One of my favorite books about persevering through tough times and finding renewed hope through tragic circumstances is, “You Gotta Keep Dancin” by Tim Hansel. It’s an old book, written in 1985, but the message is as relevant today as it was the day Tim wrote it.   Tim Hansel was a strong, healthy, and adventurous young man who loved rock climbing. Serious rock climbing. The kind that requires ropes and ice picks and scaling sheer rock walls in remote places at insane heights. Until the day of the accident. In a moment of inattention on an icy snow-packed ledge he slipped, fell a long way, and suffered injuries that would plague him the rest of his life. Never again would Tim have a pain-free day.   A rescue team saved Tim. He had surgeries and rehab and counseling, but he would never really be well again – not for the remaining thirty-five years of his life. So, Tim had to decide how he was going to approach life dealing with that kind of pain every day. The insight he needed came from his doctor. When Tim asked the doctor how he was supposed to live in a meaningful way with that kind of daily pain the doctor told him, “I suggest that you bite the bullet and live to be a hundred … My recommendation is that you live your life as fully and richly as possible.”   That was the renewed hope Tim needed. He decided to trust God, receive every day as a gift, and then live life to the fullest extent possible under the circumstances as they were. Not only did Tim learn that lesson and live by it in his own life, but he formed an organization to motivate people to be overcomers of their circumstances. He wrote books; he conducted workshops; and spoke at seminars. He bit the bullet and he lived his life.   We all have pain in life. Sometimes it’s physical pain, sometimes emotional, but we all have pain. We all have challenges to overcome and limitations to push past. The question isn’t whether you will have challenges, pain, and limitations, but rather, how you will deal with those challenges, pain, and limitations. Quoting Tim Hansel, “Pain is inevitable, but misery is optional.” It all depends how you approach it and what you do with it.   To find renewed hope you will first have to decide that you are just going to keep dancing.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “What reward or recognition did we give Mordecai for this?” the king asked.” Esther 6:3 (NLT)   Our thought for today: “Just do the next right thing”   This morning, I want to continue our thinking from yesterday regarding the story of Esther and Mordecai. They were in a terrible predicament and the future seemed uncertain at best. The possibility of a deadly outcome for themselves and for their people, the Jews, was very real.   In addition to the larger story of Esther becoming queen in an improbable series of events that had to have been by the hand of God at work behind the scenes, there was also an interesting subplot that played an important part in this as well. In chapter 2:21-23 we learn that Mordecai uncovered a plot to assassinate the king. He promptly notified the king’s guards and the king’s life was saved.   Then in chapter six we read that one night the king was unable to sleep (God preventing him from sleeping for a divine purpose?) and so he called for court records to be read to him until he became sleepy. It turned out that the records selected by the reader were the ones that recorded the time that Mordecai acted to save the king’s life. So, as we just read in 6:3 (above), the king wanted to know how Mordecai had been rewarded. He was informed that there had been no reward. The king then commanded that to be immediately rectified and in a highly ironic way, it was. You should read that part of the story for yourself.     Then in chapter seven, the king learns the full story and background of Queen Esther (she is a Jew and Mordecai is her cousin and guardian). He also learns that his right-hand man, Haman, has hatched a plot to kill all the Jews, which would mean the death of the Queen and Mordecai as well. At this point in the story, it’s helpful for us to realize that by their consistent demonstration of character and integrity established in many ways over an extended period of time, Esther and Mordecai were held in high esteem by the king. That was crucial to the way the rest of the story unfolded. The king believed and trusted Esther and Mordecai; he had Haman arrested and executed; and the Jews were ultimately saved.   The lesson for us here today, with respect to our theme of finding a renewed sense of hope in the middle of difficult circumstances, is that we have to continue to simply do the next right thing moment by moment, day by day, even if we don’t know how it will all turn out. That’s what Esther and Mordecai did. Just be faithful to God, do the next right thing, and trust that God is guiding your story according to His perfect plan.   When times are hard; when the future is uncertain; and when it’s difficult to be hopeful; just keep doing the next right thing and trust God for everything else.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Who knows if you were made queen for just such a time as this?” Esther 4:14 (NLT)   Our thought for today: “There’s no telling how God might use this”   The Old Testament book of Esther is fascinating for many reasons. For one thing, it is the only book in the Bible that makes no direct mention of God. And yet, His presence in the background is obvious throughout the story, and His purpose for the main events becomes crystal clear by the end. The Story of Esther and her cousin Mordecai is also loved because of their courage to remain faithful and to do the right thing, even when circumstances were confusing and threatening.   This morning, I’m going to share with you two quotes from the editorial notes in the Swindoll Study Bible. I’m going to quote them in-full and at length because I think they summarize the book of Esther about as well as it can be summarized, and Chuck also helps us to see the personal application for us:   “The sovereignty and faithfulness of God permeates each scene. Nothing is truly coincidental … When events seemed out of control to Esther and Mordecai, when the king dictated ruin for their people, when evil was poised to triumph, God was at work. He worked through their dark days (Esther was being taken into the harem in Esth. 2:1-16), their faithful obedience (Esther risking her life before the king in Esth. 5:1-3), and their victories (Esther revealing Haman’s plot and the Jews destroying their enemies in Esth. 7-9). This message is clear: God is sovereign even when life doesn’t make sense.”   Pastor Chuck concludes: “Life can be hard. Difficult times happen, and pain cannot be avoided. When life doesn’t make sense, do you turn to God or away from Him? Let the book of Esther encourage you that God is always present and active – even when you don’t see him. Jesus calls us friends (John 15:15), and the Spirit is our Advocate (John 14:26). Trust and obey, as Esther did … and watch God work.”   Whatever difficult situation you may be facing in life right now, remember that God is there with you, He does have a plan, and He is at work behind the scenes. There is no telling how He might be planning to use this. So, trust Him, obey Him, and just keep doing the right thing.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Her children rise up and called her blessed; her husband also praises her.” Proverbs 31:28 (CSB)   Our thought for today: “I insulted his mother, so he beat me up”   I got beat-up once as a kid. Okay, more than once. I actually got beat up a lot because I was something of a wuss as a kid and I got picked on a lot. But in one particular case it was entirely my own fault. I had a friend named Philip. He was a big kid. Solid and strong. He probably grew-up to play offensive lineman in the NFL. He was that kind of big. But he was a gentle giant. Quiet, easy-going, and nice to everyone. So much so that skinny little me used to roughhouse with Philip and I never felt as if my life was in danger.   Until the day I insulted his mother. I don’t remember why and I don’t remember what I said. He must have made me mad about something and before I realized what I was doing, out of my mouth popped something like “Yeah, well you mother wears army boots,” or “She drinks whisky and works on carburetors,” or something equally clever. At that point Philip was still a giant but he was no longer gentle and I learned an important lesson that day – don’t insult a guy’s mother.   One year a greeting card company decided to supply free Mother’s Day greeting cards to prisoners in a men’s prison. They thought they had enough, but they weren’t even close. The demand was so heavy that they had to call the warehouse to send an emergency resupply. The event was so successful that they decided to do it again for Father’s Day. But this time the demand was much lower. Fathers were no where near as popular as Mothers in the hearts of those prisoners.   What is it about mothers that makes them so special to us? It probably started with nine months of bonding in the womb. And then there’s the maternal instinct that makes most mothers such tender caregivers of their children. And then, more to our theme for this month of finding sources of renewed hope, mothers are often our biggest fans in life. Mine sure was. I was a mamma’s boy and I was always running to her to kiss the boo-boo or to listen to all my woes and sorrows. I was forty-two and I was still running to my mommy to make it all better.   When it comes to mothers, mine was a rock star (not literally). So was my wife. Linda was an excellent mother to our children and I’m grateful to have shared the parenting duties with such a strong, capable, wise, and godly woman.   What a powerful and special influence mothers have in our lives! How blessed we are to have good godly mothers. They are such a source of comfort, hope, and encouragement. My mother and my wife are both in heaven now, but I will honor them on Mother’s Day just the same. I encourage you to honor yours too. (And for goodness sakes, whatever you do, don’t insult a person’s mother!)   God bless, Pastor Jim     (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Haven’t I commanded you: be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9 (CSB)   Our thought for today: “Renewed hope from their good examples”   I’m so grateful to have known each of the four woman whose stories we have been considering for the last several days. Their strength and courage through adversity; their perseverance when it would have been so easy to give in and give up; and their strong faith and trust in God for whatever the outcome; I find their examples inspiring. It reminds me of the words of the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 4:8-9, “We are afflicted in every way but not crushed; we are perplexed but not in despair; we are persecuted but not abandoned; we are struck down but not destroyed.”   Of course, I was most familiar with the example set by my own wife, Linda. I draw strength and inspiration every day from the memory of how she lived with courage, determination, and perseverance. That was true of all four of those women. And it’s not merely the fact that they went through those trials that causes us to admire them, but how they did it. It was how they dealt with their challenges that so impressed us. So surely, if they could live the way they did facing the challenges they had to deal with, the rest of us can handle our challenges with similar strength and courage.   For my part, as I attempt to gaze into the future and try to envision what life without Linda is going to be like in the months and years ahead, I admit that I can’t fathom it. Even after five months I still can’t see it. So, I need a verse like Joshua 1:9 to encourage me and to help me find renewed hope. God commands me to be strong and courageous, and to not be afraid or discouraged.   I have to admit that sometimes I am not strong and courageous, and sometimes I am afraid and discouraged. But that’s okay; those are normal human emotions in a situation like this and to be expected. That’s true for me and for the other three men who are part of this story, but it’s also true for you too. Sometimes life is hard and the future is uncertain, and it is perfectly normal to struggle with uncertainty.   But as God promised in Joshua 1:9 and in numerous other verses in both the Old and New Testaments, He is with us every step of the way. Not only that, but when you arrive in the future, He will already be there waiting for you. He is here now and He will be there then.   Jacki, Gail, Linda, and Rebecca knew that truth and they lived by that truth. So now, the rest of us can draw renewed hope for our own futures thanks to the good examples they set for us. The lesson for us then, is to go and do likewise. Let us resolve to set a good example for others by the way we face our challenges today.   God bless, Pastor Jim    (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)   Our thought for today: “Trust, obey, keep moving”   I have chosen to bring us back to the same verse we were thinking about yesterday because there is more for us to learn from it. How did those four couples, those four men and four women, handle the challenge of those progressing illnesses that all resulted in the death of the wives? How did they, and how are they, getting through that? You know the answer. With the help of the Lord. They all relied on the truth expressed in Proverbs 3:5-6.   None of us really understood why it was happening; none of us were okay with it; and none of us wanted it to end the way that it did. But we know that God is sovereign over the situations of our lives. We know that He is good, that His love for us is unconditional, and that His will is perfect. So, wives and husbands both trusted in the Lord with all our hearts, leaning not on our own understanding, doing our best to honor Him in the way we conducted ourselves, and believing that His plan is perfect.   Why do some live and others do not? Why do some get cancer, or Alzheimer’s, or have strokes, or die young? Why are some healed and others aren’t? Those questions are often difficult to answer. Sometimes there is no answer on this side of heaven. But we trust in the Lord and keep moving forward anyway.   Our wives all knew that nothing is over until you give up. And so, none of them gave up. They lived until they died. They hoped for longer life, but they also had the assurance of eternity in heaven. In His perfect will, God has chosen to bring the wives home to heaven and to leave the husbands here on earth for a while longer. That means He isn’t done with us yet here in this world. There is more living to do, more work to be done, more people to bless. And so, we press on – missing our wives, cherishing the memories, and trusting God for the future.   It is hard, and it does hurt, but there is also hope. Life going forward will not be the same, but it can still be good. Sometimes Proverbs 3:5-6 is the best you can do – sometimes it is all you can do. Trust, obey, keep moving.   But of course, this is not just a story about four men and four women dealing with life and death issues. This is a story about all of us. It is a story about life. There is much we don’t understand and don’t like in life. There is a lot that is hard. But the answer is always the same – trust, obey, keep moving.   There’s one more truth I believe we can glean from this story that will be helpful for all of us. We will think about that tomorrow.   God bless, Pastor Jim      (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)   Our thought for today: “Trust the Lord and keep moving forward”   Yesterday we considered the important truth that action makes a difference. Whatever it is we are dealing with in life, doing something about it is better than doing nothing about it. As an illustration, I told you about four men who are all recent widowers and who now have to figure out how to move forward in life without their much-loved spouses (grieving and moving forward at the same time). Today we will consider the inspirational examples of the four wives who are now in heaven.   Jacki courageously battled cancer for seventeen years. It went into remission and came back multiple times. Steve lovingly and faithfully walked through those years with her, weathering the storms side-by-side. Jacki never gave-in to the cancer. She continued to live life fully. The first time I met her she was entertaining guests in her home in Maryland, despite the cancer treatments. The next time, we were together on a mission trip to the coal-mining region in eastern Kentucky. Towards the end of her life, she still went on skiing vacations with Steve. She could no longer ski, but she could sit by the fire in the lodge and watch Steve as he came down the mountain, and that was good enough for her.   Gail had early-onset Alzheimer’s disease. It attacked her in her early fifties. Jim was an Emergency Room physician. He retired early to care of Gail. Although the disease was progressing quickly, together they still came to church on Sundays, they still went on vacations, and in the mid-stage of the disease Gail even went on a cross-country motorcycle ride with Jim and friends. Although her memory was bad and she was often confused, she still sat on the back of that Harley for hundreds of miles – being with her husband and friends and making the most of life.   My Linda had a stroke and brain surgery that left her seriously disabled. She lived for almost seventeen years after that and she never stopped living life fully. She went on a mission trip to conduct vacation Bible schools in Gypsy villages in the Transylvania region of Romania (in a wheelchair!) She served as the VBS leader at our church one summer. She was involved in children’s ministry at our church right up until the last days of her life. And she never lost her can-do spirit or her playful sense of humor.   Rebecca was also young, only fifty-five. She bravely fought cancer for almost a year, enduring surgery and chemotherapy. But she never gave-in or gave-up. She was our music director, leading singing in the church almost every Sunday (including just three days before she died). She also served as the Regional Director of the district office for Congressman John Rose. And, as the wife of our County Mayor, she was the First Lady of Cumberland County. Together Allen and Rebecca carried on a full life, helping and supporting each other in all their activities and duties. From the way they both handled it, unless you had the inside information about Rebecca’s illness, you would never have known she was even sick. Neither she nor Allen made a fuss about it. They just dealt with it and kept going.   There’s just too much to say about this to put it all in one devotional message. So, I will conclude this portion of the story tomorrow. For today, just consider the courageous and inspirational examples of these four great ladies, and then go and do likewise. Live life fully, with joy, enthusiasm, and hope.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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Good morning everyone,   Our theme for this month: “Renewed hope”   Our Bible verse for today: “Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us, keeping our eyes on Jesus, the source and perfecter of our faith.” Hebrews 12:1-2 (CSB)   Our thought for today: “Action makes a difference”   Within my circle of friends, I am one of four men who are all recent widowers. We are all in roughly the same age group (mid-50s to mid-70s), we are all Christians, and we are all professional men who still have a lot of life to live and a lot of good we can do for others.   One of the men lost his wife five years ago, another three years ago, for myself it was five months ago, and for the fourth it was only a couple of weeks ago. So, we’re all in different places on this journey of grieving the loss of a much-loved life partner, and then having to figure out how to continue living in a meaningful way. It has been helpful and therapeutic for me to have these friendships as we all try to help each other through perhaps the deepest valley in life that any man will ever have to walk through.   One important truth that has been reinforced for me by the two friends who are further along on this journey than I am, and which is also stressed by every grief counselor and in every book about the grief of losing your spouse is “You will get through this. It will hurt and it will be hard, but you will get through it.” Another important truth is “You have to live. You have to move forward in life. It is essential for you to take some positive, constructive steps every day to move forward. You have to grieve and move forward at the same time because if you don’t, all you are doing is grieving – and that becomes emotional quicksand.” That advice is essentially the practical application of Hebrews 12:1-2: Keep your eyes on Jesus and keep moving forward.   Those two important truths provide essential guidance for a grieving spouse, but they are also important truths for all of us and for life in general. Whatever it is you are dealing with, do something about it. Action makes a difference. Doing something is better than doing nothing.   This is where renewed hope comes from. Optimism is the belief that things can potentially get better, but optimism is often ill-defined and little more than wishful thinking. Hope is optimism plus action. Hope does something to make the situation better. Hope is having the will and then finding the way. It is perseverance through tough times that leads you to better times.   Today I told you about four men whose wives are now in heaven and the men are therefore in various stages of moving forward into the next season of life. Doing so in a healthy way requires action and perseverance. Tomorrow, I want to tell you about the four wives. They are four examples of action and perseverance applied in a different way and with a different, but inspirational, outcome.   The lesson for today is: Whatever it is you are dealing with in life, do something about it. Action makes a difference.   God bless, Pastor Jim   (If you like what you’re reading in these daily devotionals, and if you would like more content from Oak Hill Baptist Church, join us on Sundays at 10:00, in-person if you are nearby or, if you are geographically distant or if you just can’t make it, online at www.YouTube.com/@oakhillbaptistcrossville

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